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PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2015 10:44 pm 
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A girl I know teases me saying " i know u are a hun at heart" using the word Hun (usually a word the girls in that group use for each other). I am not a big fan of being called hun or things like that since its a bit childish and girly. How can I retort here while keeping the frame strong so that i dont come across as a jerk but rather taking it easy. Thanks a lot guys !


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2015 11:55 pm 
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A girl I know teases me saying " i know u are a hun at heart" using the word Hun (usually a word the girls in that group use for each other). I am not a big fan of being called hun or things like that since its a bit childish and girly. How can I retort here while keeping the frame strong so that i dont come across as a jerk but rather taking it easy. Thanks a lot guys !
You have the wrong mindset. Sounds more like she is shit testing you, placing you in the friendzone frame, by calling you hun. I would flip the table by misinterpreting what she means by hun. So i would have countered with something like "oh yes, i am totally your hun. So that means we get to go shopping together and change in the same fitting room right?"

Or

"I'm not your hun sweetie, im your future ex lover"
"You should be spanked for calling me that (walks over to the girl, turns her around and says bend over)"

Both responses have a sexual undertone to it and thats what you want. Create and keep sexual tension so that she doesn't percieve you as a friend.
And fyi, you have to be a jerk sometimes if you dont want to be seen as a nice guy who she only wants to be friends with


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2015 8:56 am 
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Tease her back?

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2015 9:30 am 
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Lol you take things way to seriously


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2016 9:16 am 
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She teasing you will normally be an indicator of interest. She's likely interested in you.

Think hank moody or do this with a humorous smirk on your face:

Here is what I will say:

"Thank you! Don't let me catch you not appreciating my inner hun"

"You just lost 10 points... It is 'King HUN' for you!"

"I don't like what you're saying! - You just sucked!"

Remember you never want to come across as rude or nasty. The best frame to be in is that you're a flirt who is playing with a bratty little girl. In the beginning stages nothing should ever be serious.

Her beauty/body attracts you. Your personality attracts her (how much fun you are)


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2016 11:01 am 
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"You just lost 10 points... It is 'King HUN' for you!"
:lol:

Or,

"I know ur like my bratty little sister at heart"

Keep it playful.


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Although it does seem like something small I totally know what you mean because I personally hate it when girls call me "dude". This girl I was interested in would also always call me 'dude' to tease me and while I knew it was a sign of interest from her, she had to be put in her place because it really was getting out of hand.

So I started calling her 'dude' like unnecessarily often, which then led to her saying it more often of course, so then I really started calling her 'dude' an absurd amount of times until it just became a ridiculous thing and it ended right there. A couple times she tried to call me dude again and I trolled her right back immediately calling her dude, and I guess it wasn't funny to her anymore because I've never heard her call me that since and she ended up becoming my gf for a while actually.

Two can play this game. Give her a taste of her own medicine!

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2016 2:13 pm 
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The fact that it's actually phased you shows that your game probably isn't that strong.

I have girls say things like this to me all the time when I'm being a bit of a flirtatious dickhead with a sweetside.

And so what? I am a hun... infact, I'm an absolute babe. :lol:


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2016 2:40 pm 
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A girl I know teases me saying " i know u are a hun at heart" using the word Hun (usually a word the girls in that group use for each other). I am not a big fan of being called hun or things like that since its a bit childish and girly. How can I retort here while keeping the frame strong so that i dont come across as a jerk but rather taking it easy. Thanks a lot guys !
Since you asked for a way to reframe, look playfully shocked at her and say "you know things now?"

Same as if she tells you she thinks something, say "you can think"? Or if you really don't like what she's said, "well thinking is tricky, it takes practice"

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