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 Post subject: Approaching In Gyms
PostPosted: Mon Apr 13, 2015 10:57 pm 
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Does anyone have any good routines for this ?

There are 2 really hot girls in my gym but I don't know how to approach in such a setting when they look busy with earphones in.

I noticed one of them was looking at me today but so what I look at everyone at some point while in the gym.

Any tips would be appreciated, I'm guessing very indirect approach would be best


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 Post subject: Re: Approaching In Gyms
PostPosted: Mon Apr 13, 2015 11:34 pm 
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I understand that the gym seems like an intimidating place for pickup; girls look mean and/or angry, the dudes are huge and scary looking, and it feels extra weird to approach someone who is clearly there on a mission. If you read my post history, you'll see that I once asked the same question. The answers weren't very helpful, but I've thought about it a lot since then. I got 2 numbers with girls in my gym this past weekend, both I expect to get day 2's with, and I have a formula that works pretty well for me, although it is quite direct so it might not be your cup of tea.

The first thing that you have to understand is that every woman in the gym is there for one purpose, sometimes two: 1) to look good for men, and 2) to look good for judges if they compete. Sometime you'll meet actual athletes, but my opener covers this possibility. When I open girls at the gym, I typically like to do it the second or third time I see her, which shouldn't be a problem if you are consistent about the time you go to the gym. If she's wearing headphones, as I'm walking up to her and make initial eye contact, I smile and point to my own ears, pretending to pull out headphones that are already out of my ears because I know I'm about to talk to her. She'll pull them out and look at you expectantly. Then, simply say; "Hey, I've seen you here a few times! Are you working out for anything specific, or to just look good and stay healthy?" If she a bodybuilder, physique competitor, or athlete, she will tell you with pride. If she's isn't any of the above, and simply wants to look good and be healthy, she will say so as well. Either way, your response is the same: "Oh really? that's cool! Well you look fit and gorgeous! I'd like to get to know you better!"

If you did everything right, she may give you a blank stare, or look a little taken back. Don't let this confuse you, you just made her week, probably her month, or even, possibly, her year! They key to this interaction is to be confident, genuine, and honest. You do this by maintaining a smile the whole time and good body language. You don't need to be intense at all, the way you would be at a club. Just be friendly and interested, and she will greatly appreciate it.

At this point, she may be staring at you blankly. If you did everything right, this stare is the equivalent of you seeing a perfect 10 for the first time and literally having your breath taken away. Sometimes she may give you a big smile and jump right into conversation. Either way, these are huge IOI's. At this point you extend your hand for a handshake and introduce yourself. At this point you've broken the touch barrier, but you should also touch her lightly on the upper arm, which is a more man to woman touch than a handshake. You've now started talking and touching, so at this point you just escalate the way you would in any other situation. Good Luck!!


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 Post subject: Re: Approaching In Gyms
PostPosted: Mon Apr 13, 2015 11:43 pm 
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I should also mention that there are a few unspoken rules about gym approaches:

1. If they are lifting, try to approach during excercises. Meaning, she was doing sqauts, deloaded, and is moving to leg lifts, approach there. Don't approach in between sets, and certainly don't approach mid lift. She may blow you off for no other reason than she wants to focus on her lifts. I've personally never met a woman who wouldn't talk between excercises, though she may want to cut off the conversation a little early since she doesn't want to lose steam in her workout. This doesn't mean she isn't interested in you, just that she's interested in her workout more, which is totally fine. Just say you need to get back as well, number close, and go get her when you're done with your workout.

2. A lot of guys will tell you not to approach girls who are on the treadmill. This is bs. If she's going really hard, she may be too winded to talk, but usually people move at a pace where talking is totally comfortable, or maybe only slightly uncomfortable. What I do in this situation is jump up on the front of the treadmill (on the piece that isn't moving obviously) and open and carry on as I wrote in my above post.

3. Hitting on girls who are stretching is totally fine, and actually ideal. Stretching releases a lot of the same hormones that are released during sex, so if you start hitting on her while she's stretching, she will actually subconsciously associate you with sex much faster than in pretty much any other situation.


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 Post subject: Re: Approaching In Gyms
PostPosted: Tue Apr 14, 2015 12:30 am 
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I understand that the gym seems like an intimidating place for pickup; girls look mean and/or angry, the dudes are huge and scary looking, and it feels extra weird to approach someone who is clearly there on a mission.
Haha our gym standards must be different, the gym I go to has no serious lifters or athletes and I have never seen someone there that actually looks like they go to gym apart from myself and the 2 girls I mentioned 8)


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 Post subject: Re: Approaching In Gyms
PostPosted: Tue Apr 14, 2015 12:36 am 
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I should also mention that there are a few unspoken rules about gym approaches:

1. If they are lifting, try to approach during excercises. Meaning, she was doing sqauts, deloaded, and is moving to leg lifts, approach there. Don't approach in between sets, and certainly don't approach mid lift. She may blow you off for no other reason than she wants to focus on her lifts. I've personally never met a woman who wouldn't talk between excercises, though she may want to cut off the conversation a little early since she doesn't want to lose steam in her workout. This doesn't mean she isn't interested in you, just that she's interested in her workout more, which is totally fine. Just say you need to get back as well, number close, and go get her when you're done with your workout.

2. A lot of guys will tell you not to approach girls who are on the treadmill. This is bs. If she's going really hard, she may be too winded to talk, but usually people move at a pace where talking is totally comfortable, or maybe only slightly uncomfortable. What I do in this situation is jump up on the front of the treadmill (on the piece that isn't moving obviously) and open and carry on as I wrote in my above post.

3. Hitting on girls who are stretching is totally fine, and actually ideal. Stretching releases a lot of the same hormones that are released during sex, so if you start hitting on her while she's stretching, she will actually subconsciously associate you with sex much faster than in pretty much any other situation.
Most of the girls just hit the treadmill or stretch with ab exercises, I am lost for openers, I am good at conversation but sparking it with a stranger in a non club setting just screams creep to me.

Im good at it in club I just say something stupid that they don't hear and grab their neck and then kiss them but that is expected to a certain extent in that setting, ill get arrested doing that in a gym :mrgreen:

Im thinking of saying something random like "I see you here all the time when Im here so I thought I should talk to you"


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