| nothing wrong with starting with comfort, and building rapport,
and this whole comfort off the bat will put you in friend zone thing is a completely retarded limiting belief perpetuated by the mystery method, it is totall bullshit, if she is interested she will be interested, you might find though that you would get much more use out of screening girls for interest before you just build rapport
rapport is basically just conversation, it is talking,
seeking rapport is to do something in order to get someone to have a conversation, such as asking questions, where are you from?, what do you do?, have you seen the weather outside?
building rapport (or being in rapport), is just being in a conversation and building upon it, and usually involves statements more then questions, that's crazy, we have so much in common, that is like this one time that blah blah blah
breaking rapport, is anything that goes agaisn't the idea of having a conversation, ignoring a person, being the person trying to end a conversation, making fun of somone (teasing negging etc.), back turns, strong dis-agreements, dead ended statements, sexual statements, things that seek to neither build or seek a conversation, but try to break it instead
so here are some questions for you, 10 minutes of conversation, was any intent shown?, did they know why you were talking to them?, did you even invite them out to do something or ask for a number?
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