Me personally I'm not much in to the online game, even though before I did have a pretty good success rate. Unfortunately right now, with my business etc I've had to use it as a way to meet new women. I dislike using scripted shit, it just feels fake to me. So my question to you is this " is there an approach for older women I should be taking" because mine does not seem to be working. Probably my profile and pics, I would assume.

You can put any words into your profile you want, but they're just words. You need to think of creating a online profile like sexting a girl, you goal is to make them feel what're saying and visualize it without you there. You can't just run in there and text "I want my junk inside of you" as this has no feeling, so you need something like "While my hands are running up the back of your spine I can feel your breath getting harder and harder against my neck".

I'm not the best looking person nor am I rich but this is what oKcupid looks like and POF is far worse.

You asked for a different perspective and you don't like scripted shit, so there you go.

Any advice on how to accomplish that? Newly single after 5yrs and I seem to be missing something with online dating.

This is coming from a guy who's gamed and smashed girls through online dating. It comes down to your pictures and the big key here is an interesting profile to supplement that. So get the best pictures of yourself (if you don't have any, start now), and no matter what, in the "online" world the girl on the other end has got to find your pictures somewhat remotely attractive and if she does find your picture attractive then your "about me" section would be your closer on her responding back to your initial message. I can dig deep onto this subject as I've had success in the online world for the last 2 years, but I do find it better gaming in person! Good Luck.

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Thanks guys.

Also, I hate being serious online just takes the fun out of it. I tend to say messed up shit, most of the time to keep me interested in the convo. I just don't know if I'm crossing a line with most women, just a lot recently seem to have a stick up there ass, instead of my dick. I try to go for the outgoing ones, but even they are not reacting to it in a good way.