Hey, so I just got out of a year and a half relationship, second week back into dating.
First week, I was desperate for a rebound.
Huge no-no, I know.
Totally out of tune with reality...
Anyways, I just got my first real success from POF.
Been doing some studying from this website, and it's helped me a ton.
Please critique, analyze, and tell me my successes/faults for the following convo!



me
Things I know about you: you've got dark hair.
You like the same music i do.
You have a turquoise dress.

Got a real picture ?

her
Hahahah, Im not a huge picture person, theyre all on facebook from other people


me
Cool. What's your name, I'll add you.

her
my name is ______


me
So many her name _____ Only one my name _____
Add me.


the convo moves to facebook after she quickly adds me.

me

So when did you develop an uncanny fear of your picture being taken?

her

Hahahah, Im not really sure, but if you noticed my head is usually turned

me

Or you're covering your face, or finding something to block it

me

I'm not going to nit pick it. Im just confused as to why.
her
I prefer to be seen in personnn loll
me

Inviting me out so soon? I'd like to get to know you a bit first if thats ok.
her

Hahahaha, that wasnt an invitation just an answer to your question [:P]
me
Don't be shy. I thought it was flattering [:)]

Girls your age don't usually listen to music with instruments. What sets you apart?

her

hahahaha, dont flatter yourself [:)]

Id rather listen to real music than music made from machines hahah
me

You wouldn't say Tom morello is a machine?

Or Danny carrey? [:)] I would.
her
Hahahah machines and robots are different
me
Ya? I don't know what science class you took but they fit in the same category in my books. [:P]
So you're free this weekend so I can see that pretty smile of yours?
her

Hahahah, I may be going to the Bourbon Friday night with a few if you wanted to tag along
me
I don't tag along to places, but I'd be willing to see you down there. Should I bring some friends to distract your friends from you? Or will I be enough. [:-)]
her
Hahahha, yeahh bring some friends... although youre all going to have to take tequila shots... My one rule
me
They'll have to be body shots. My one rule.

I'm playing. So I'll take your number and text you later in the week, alright?

her
hahaha okay suuree

not sure about the body shots thouugh

xxx xxx xxxx


So, clearly the body shots was a baaaaaaaaad idea.
Poor recovery (just joking), but I think I had her already and she didn't mind

the girl kinda cowered in all her pictures, not sure why.
I was scared she would be ugly, turned out to be gorgeous.

Sounds like you're doing good so far man keep it up

I got out of my LTR a while back now, maybe a couple of weeks, not really sure!

As well as running my usual offline game I figured I'd give POF a try although I was skeptical. Turns out I was wrong, it's pretty legit if you play it right.

Still much prefer regular club game but POF is well worth a look for anyone who has never tried it.

Your game looks good. Especially for just getting back into it. I've had a gf for the last few months, and just got finished polishing the rust off my online stuff, too.


One suggestion. The conversation was a little long, IMO. My preference is to number close quickly as possible.... Then text ASAP after getting the number, continuing the conversation via text.

Another thing I'll point out is your preference for PoF. You seem articulate in your writing. People like that do better on okcupid. It takes more time to write a good profile, and it needs to tuned up a notch from PoF. BUT a lot of the women on there are attractive and educated. So, they also appreciate articulate guys. Not just some dude flexing abs in his mom's bathroom mirror, sitting on a 30K motor bike his mom bought, etc.....

Give it try!

Good to hear that guys.
Thanks for the heads up about okcupid. Will check out.
I think in time I'll learn how to wrap it up quicker, just didn't want to scare her off so I took it slower.
And I had to head to sleep so couldn't follow up with text.
Should I text her today, or is that a bad idea?

Esti roman ?

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