I have no idea what to do in social situations.NO EXPERIENCE



Users browsing this forum: Google [Bot] and 5 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Inner Game » Social Shyness & Anxiety




Author Message
PostPosted: Tue Mar 09, 2010 10:41 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Tue Feb 09, 2010 3:28 pm
Posts: 23
I was basically a hermit until last year and really have no good friends. I can game girls pretty easily at malls and stuff, but I'm always there BY MYSELF. At school, I can't do sh1t, because of the whole social proof thing. I don't really know where to start. My outer game is decent, but I have almost no inner game. And I can't keep faking confidence when it's really not there.


Top
   
 Post subject: Reply
PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:43 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:29 am
Posts: 23
Hey man what's up. I was in a similiar situation you were in, and I think it really boils down to really being comfortable in your own skin and being able to freely express yourself in anyway without fear of judgement. Adam Lyons as well as alot of top PUAs like DJ Fuji talk about Destination . A process of progressively putting yourself in situations little by little to reach the end goal in mind. This can be applied to confidence. There are a series of social experiments you can put yourself through to obtain this.

Social Experiment #1-Walk down the street with a dress and say hi to strangers
After you have enough confidence to do this, approaching the hottest girl, or being worried about your image, or self presentation shouldn't be an issue.

If you want more tips add me on Facebook "Dele Olora"


Top
   
 Post subject: Other Books To Consider
PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:50 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 3:29 am
Posts: 23
Also, en element that helped me gain inner confidence, are two books that are must reads. Way of The Superior Man by David Deida, and Unlimited Power by Tony Robbins. These books will align your beliefs, remove your negative beliefs associated with women, and give you a definition for masculinity.

Also to get friends, try joining some clubs on campus, or join some sports, or do student body.


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 3 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link