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Let me state the obvious "game" in your opinion is just -> go out, get rejected repeat until you learn how to not get rejected. No tricks nothing to learn.
EXACTLY!!!!
People who are successful learn how to learn from failure. People who are doomed for failure see success as something that happens over night by reading a bunch of shit about how to be successful. Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that boss.
If you want to be successful, you have to go out and see what works for you! Come here for suggestions... Not people telling you what to do each step of the way. Success isn't something that has a black or white solution. You've gotta sacrifice the time and the emotional/physical beating that comes along with it.
If you want to learn how to get good with women, you've gotta put in the time. And not by reading either... There will be days where you go into work on 3 hours of sleep cause you stayed up out too late the night before. There will be times where you have your life in danger or get physically hurt. There will be times you will get yelled at and emotionally scarred. But at the end of the day... It's all part of the journey to becoming successful.
See, here's the way you're seeing it... You spend hours upon hours a day, reading posts, studying up like a good little student. (my guess is you're probably really smart college kid, aren't ya?) And all the sudden, once you "graduate," you figure it out. You think once you read up enough, you're going to get out there and start pulling stunners, right? Well, it doesn't work like that. LIFE doesn't work like that. (this is the wrong thread to get into this but that's why I think college is a big fucking joke. You go in there to build a life for yourself... But they don't teach you how to survive in the real world. They teach you how to survive in book world. Where everything is neat and structured and perfect and safe. Each step is laid out for you and there is no guess work involved at all.)
Guess what dude, success doesn't work that way!! You get out there and you'll notice that NOTHING is going to go the way a post tells you its going to go. Nothing is going to happen in order. You think every girl is going to respond to something you do or say and then your dreams get crushed because THAT'S NOT HOW IT IS!! The way it does work is you get out there and you deal with the repeated failure. You develop that resilience to just not give a fuck about failure and getting rejected because you know that once you "get going enough" (meaning you make yourself so turned on and horny that you want it even that much more. You get so frustrated that you snap and make it happen.) everything will work out. And if it doesn't work out... You learn something.
See, you seem to want to get laid. Not to learn anything though. What I will suggest if you want to get good at this... Is learn how to learn it... Not beg someone to tell you how to do it.
“I am afraid of riding on motorcycles and angry Persian women holding knives, but when it comes to rejection, I’m fresh out of fucks to give.”