| Alright well I'm about 8-9 months into this game! Pending mastery which is 3.5 years. Anyway, I'm doing fairly well, quite competent in generally all situations! I have sticking points and things but hey whatever we all do. What i wanted to specifically talk about today was Social Proof and the effect on the HB.
Alright so I'm in the city, fairly warm nice gorgeous day, i see a hot girl sitting by herself, must’ve been a hb 8.5 very social attractive person, i open her, we joke a little, have a conversation whatever, shes into it but shes like whatever... so i hit her with a dhv lacing social proof and make it as if she has some serious competition. Suddenly she lights up and acts more responsive to me telling me that psht they are no competition to me.
All is good i time bridge, so i close i take her Myspace. Whatever great experience, i msg her on Myspace saying 'omg look at all the cute competition you have, whats a way to tell someone i dont like them? this girl has been bugging me all day' the social proof switch is finally hit when she says ' why wouldn’t she hit on you, your gorgeous babe '. Bang!
Now here is the problem, its more with me then her, whatever she was attracted to social proof.. i cheated i faked it until i made it, i meet 4 girls and i added them on Myspace i pawned them against each other for competitive purposes and i was equally socially proofed on all sides.
I feel like i haven’t earned it, like shes attracted to my social proof rather then me.. Sure she now is alot more receptive and wants to get to know me all that, but i feel like its been set of for the wrong reasons.
Any thoughts, about my situation, all welcome!
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