As my post before, I went to a mall to sarge. Weirdly enough, I did not approach anyone.
I've been thinking and here's what i noticed:
- most ppl are walking way too fast to talk to
- if they ever see your approach, most people would steer clear
- Some girls give you a sign or a signal to tell you to open.

Now here is what I think I can apply to my game right now [or even you can apply]:
- Maintain eye contact and walk right up if you feel that there is any signal at all
- Openers doesn't really matter in a mall. What you say AFTER the opener is the important part. ie: conversation!
- pick your targets?

Anyways so I walked out of the mall and decided to go for a walk. I was walking along and I see this HB7. I smiled and walked right up while maintaining eye contact...:

"Hey, what's up?"
"nothing, just going to the mall"
"actually, do you know what this street is? and how can I get to this street?"
"Yea, just go down and keep walking blah blah blah"
"Alright thanks"
*walks away... after 5 meters, turn around and says*
"Hey, i'm wondering if your a fun girl? Like doing you like having fun?"
*she turns around and starts walking back*
"what type of fun?"
"Well, like fun fun, playing fun."
"Yea I guess so"
At this point, she was laughing already and I felt this weird connection for some reason. It was like we built instant rapport.
"Ok, how about this. we play a game? I have a few minutes."
"Yea alright"
*I start the 5 question game* She seems very interested and we are having heaps of fun
*My Phone rings and it was actually a interview call lol* so this is what happened
"O shit, I gotta leave. Hey we'll finish this game another day kool?"
"Yea awesome." *we both smile and I could see she was waiting for me to ask for her number but I just left. Needed that job haha.

Things learned:
- rapport is really important. Must learn how to instantly create that. I think a reason was because she and I had a similar bubbly personality and we used very similar body language. Lots of smiles and laughs.
- Isolated places do help
- Maintain eye contact and taking chances

Any comments tips, criticisms and conversations are all welcome.
Btw, if i'm posting too much let me know. I just want to share and learn together at the same time.

Well I also find that if you are waiting for signs too much you will go into your head too much. For me I get more success when I'm just talking. A few warm up approachs and then just casualy get talking.

On that last approach though you should of motionned for her to write her number down or to lend you her phone and put your number in while talking on yours...

anyhow,
Cheers!

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