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PostPosted: Sat Jan 09, 2010 12:12 pm 
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Now..it’s the beginning of the new year and time to make conclusions and statistics ;) I know about PUA world 1 year and 7 months.

My results:

* K-Closes: 8
* F-Closes: 1
* Cold approaches (asking time, directions): about 20-30
* Cold approaches from PU angle: 0
* Nr closes: 0
* Web approaches: under 1000 I guess, but with only 1 result (meeting and K-Close)

Statistically speaking.. I K-Close a girl every 2,38 months. Well..the good news is that it’s past 2 months when I last K-Closed..so..statistically speaking..I should get one soon :D

Ok..as I can see from the numbers..for a guy who knows about PU stuff..this ise REALLY FCKING WEAK :S The petting talk to me: all theese results have come from non-cold approaches and to take in consideration that my social life is about zero..I literally sometimes (like this week) stay in house for a whole week..the results are not that bad ( I have gotten results drom about 40% of the chances ). I know..the amount of interactions is ridictulously low.

So..what conclusions can I really make out of it? I can say that I have a severe inner game issues bc of the low ammount of cold approaches. I’m always afraid that I see that girl again or I run out of targets in my town.. I guess tha one thing I have to keep in mind is that there are two ways of living. I can:

a) not approach any girl, not fck up any interactions..but.. without approaching and due to the fact that I have a really shitty social life.. I will not get any girls also.

b) I cold approach, fck up the interactions and still not have the girls. So.. in the end result..it’s the same, I have no girls.. but with this way I might succeed some times and I get a hell of a lot exp points (no, not the kind of exp points you can spend on your char in runescape and wear that bad-ass hat..but exp points wich I can spend on myself and get that bad-ass girl).

So..in conclusion what I want to tell with this post: I haven’t made the most of my time, living in constant fears and being really passive. Will I be able to change myself? I really hope, although I made a same promise in the beginning of 2009 that I will start cold-approaching and stuff but I still didn’t do it.

I really, really, really hope I can change..


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 1:01 am 
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weird... I don't get this.

You make only 30 approaches and out of that you got 7 kiss closes and 1 f-close! that's like really good man! Or do all these closes come from approaches on the web...???

Anyway don't beat yourself up. Just think about those AFC's out there who havent even touched or kissed a girl in their whole life.

For me 2009 had zero f-closes (I LMR'ed one myself cause she was a baby-hunter!!!) and 3 kiss closes. I must have had 40 # closes and 14 day2's or something. out of about 250 approaches. All in bars or clubs.

So if we are keeping track of the closing I guess I'm the loser here. Still 2009, being my first PU year, I never had so much contact with women, and learned to love their variety in personalities and beauties. Almost all 250 approaches were fun and gave me stuff to learn from. some of the # closes were really cool and required a lot of creativity and romantic feeling of wich I never even new I head it in me.

Just keep thinking postive, try to keep learning and your statistics will improve automatically.

Yesterday I k-closed and f-closed a failed day 2 from 2009. So i'm half way into january and my statistics are already better then total from last year. LOL.

Still I dont think PU is about keeping scores, its about connecting to the female person you desire.

good luck!

Bucc

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