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PostPosted: Fri Sep 11, 2009 1:39 pm 
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Hi! So, this is starting to happen to me more and more now. I pretty much only do direct game. Really easy to execute. Everything goes well. Great attraction. But then there is this moment that I completely want to eject and chill with my friends or just do other stuff. This is straight out weird. It mostly occurs after the qualification phase, when she's trying to get the conversation going, asking question, getting rapport etc. I feel like the fun part is over now. And most of the times the girls aren't such interesting persons after all. The motivation to close in any way is completely gone too. Interest on my part is lost, I dunno what it exactly is, but it is weird as hell. After a while I don't feel like wanting to put any more effort into the conversation with the girl in particular. Also, I'm very picky when it comes to women, and I do have high standards.

Now you guys may think. Stop whining and just force yourself to continue and close. But my unmotivated lazy attitude shine's trough and girls can really feel this. It affects my game in a way I don't want to. I want to make the process of pick up enjoyable and exciting for both me and her.

So what is really going on here? Is there a way to keep me motivated and interested in pursuing the girl? And in case you may wonder, I'm not gay or stuff :wink:

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 11, 2009 6:55 pm 
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Motivation... It is also ok to be laid back. I am also too lazy to call even 10 % of all the numbers I collect, if they call me I call back normally. But it is also being not needy.

Get a dirty magazine and awaken your desire. Then throw it away and go out to find the same thing but for real. ;)


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 15, 2009 6:03 pm 
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Sounds good. I think I'll give up masturbating altogether.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 17, 2009 12:28 pm 
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Ur in a good place. I would appreciate where you are now.

No bullshit, your wanting for women who arent quality is gone now.

Thats great!

Now, you can meet a woman and have a normal conversation and when it comes to the topic of women, mention, that you lost interes in uninteresting girls and by doing that, you show that you have standards.

What will happen is, women of higher qualities will start to approach you. They will ask you for your phone no. You will get the "eye" when you walk by. There is something in showing that ur not needy that gets women on.

Put some nice clothes on, kick back, go out and enjoy yourself. Approach only very beautiful women and have normal conversation that is interesting.

Try it. I did.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 4:13 am 
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Get a dirty magazine and awaken your desire.
Heh, that doesn't always work...but then again thats just me...
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Sounds good. I think I'll give up masturbating altogether.
........and thats fuckin retarded. Seriously, if and when you find someone you're gonna blow in .2 secs. and if you dont get someone you're gonna wake up with sticky bed sheets (due to a wet dream).


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