Extroverted Alpha vs. Introverted Alpha



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 8:32 am 
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hey guys don't often post here.. i think at the moment im like a level 6 or 7 alpha. i've been trying to get higher stats on my physical value (protection and providing) by going to the gym and training a fair bit, so thats levelled me up probably 1-2 levels in the last year. I think with all the pua training my inner game has gone up like 1000XP over the last year. i've got a couple of bosses to kill then i should be 9-10 in no time. only problem is im still a virgin and my friends beat the shit out of me.

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seriosuly though.. people really need to look up the definition of alpha. "Alpha" is the guy that owns a corporation, the man who owns that big law firm you hear about in the news, the 80 year old actor who has won a million oscars (sean something..)

you and everyone on this forum is a beta. it doesnt make you an alpha if you dress weird, or have what is called 'social value'. it doesnt make you alpha male if you get laid alot.

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I consider myself very introvert and have found that this can give me as much advantages as disadvantages
At university, intellectual discussions with close friends, and by myself I am at my best. When by myself I can be really focused and emotionally stable. However, I find this doesn't get me the girls.

I have read all the books and listened to RSD to get a grip and improve my life.

From that I have noticed all my needy behaviors which seem to drive girls away despite saying some cocky funny lines. I find needy behaviors kill the attraction much quicker than cocky-funny builds attraction. I am well aware of all this and to try to improve myself I think it will be best to replace needy and insecure behaviors with confident, relaxed and emotionally nonreactive behaviors.

I was wondering if there are other similar guys out there going through the same sort of thing who consider themselves introvert and what things they are doing and going through?

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I think an Introvert Alpha, is similar to The Lone Wolf.


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Ok...

I read a few posts on this thread and I seriously think there's something missing here.

Introverted Alphas are not Lone Wolves.

The difference between the introverted alpha and the lone wolf is that the introverted alpha IS ACTUALLY AN ALPHA. Lone wolves are shy betas, who don't know what the fuck is going on and decided to give up and die by themselves in despair.

The introverted alpha, in the other hand, knows what going on. They see the big picture. They understand social dynamics and know how to act upon their understanding. They are not loners. They might not be social in the sense that they're the life of the party, frat-boy style, but they are sociable and can talk and listen to people. The introverted alpha does care about what other people have to say, but care more about what he thinks. He doesn't care about how others think about him because he understands that everybody has their own life experiences and, therefore, have their own opinions and he respects that. But, what's most important is the introverted alpha knows that he is valuable. He knows and loves himself.

When it comes to women, he approaches but doesn't put a lot of weight on any of his approaches. He understands social cues, and reads IOI's well. He approaches when he sees what he wants and recognizes how to use eye contact and body language to get IOI's (or the lack thereof) from his "target". Women don't usually speak to him first, but stand next to him with their backs facing him hoping that he would take notice and start the conversation. He understands that rejection is a part of life and that not every woman is going to want to jump his bone. He realizes that life consists a lot of randomness and that he can meet women everywhere he goes, not just bars and nightclubs. He goes out explores life (whether it be by himself or with others), is open to new experiences, and expresses himself when he feels like it.

This is the introverted alpha. He is comfortable with himself and with other people.


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Necrooooo

The day I master it, ill write a thread on introverted gaming. For now however, natural introverts should read some of 60YOC Material. Lot's of nonverbal moves that are designed for the silent type.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 02, 2013 10:37 am 
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Thanks for this topic. I agree with this
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He'd chill with his bud, be much more into his conversation than anything else that's going on around him

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and maybe say some C/F stuff to girls near him, who'd be intrigued to keep talking and it'd go from there
I disagree here. Why would you say C/F to girls on random like that? I believe it shows you are just faking the intro-alpha... I believe intro-alpha should be a gentlemen and the way for him to "show off himself" who be to say something direct, honest, provocative. Instead of trying to do something funny to get attention. I believe intro-alpha doesn't want any attention, he just wants the woman.


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Ok...

I read a few posts on this thread and I seriously think there's something missing here.

Introverted Alphas are not Lone Wolves.

The difference between the introverted alpha and the lone wolf is that the introverted alpha IS ACTUALLY AN ALPHA. Lone wolves are shy betas, who don't know what the fuck is going on and decided to give up and die by themselves in despair.

The introverted alpha, in the other hand, knows what going on. They see the big picture. They understand social dynamics and know how to act upon their understanding. They are not loners. They might not be social in the sense that they're the life of the party, frat-boy style, but they are sociable and can talk and listen to people. The introverted alpha does care about what other people have to say, but care more about what he thinks. He doesn't care about how others think about him because he understands that everybody has their own life experiences and, therefore, have their own opinions and he respects that. But, what's most important is the introverted alpha knows that he is valuable. He knows and loves himself.

When it comes to women, he approaches but doesn't put a lot of weight on any of his approaches. He understands social cues, and reads IOI's well. He approaches when he sees what he wants and recognizes how to use eye contact and body language to get IOI's (or the lack thereof) from his "target". Women don't usually speak to him first, but stand next to him with their backs facing him hoping that he would take notice and start the conversation. He understands that rejection is a part of life and that not every woman is going to want to jump his bone. He realizes that life consists a lot of randomness and that he can meet women everywhere he goes, not just bars and nightclubs. He goes out explores life (whether it be by himself or with others), is open to new experiences, and expresses himself when he feels like it.

This is the introverted alpha. He is comfortable with himself and with other people.
+1, great description in my opinion.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 09, 2013 1:49 am 
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The term "alpha" is just so lame. Confidence is key, being confident in who you are, not needing other people but wanting them in your life. Taking action a d pursuing what you want. Being comfortable with yourself and warm around others and developing the confident version of yourself.

Introverted vs extroverted "alpha"? Who gives a shit? A rich man doesn't need to tell you he's rich.


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hey guys don't often post here.. i think at the moment im like a level 6 or 7 alpha. i've been trying to get higher stats on my physical value (protection and providing) by going to the gym and training a fair bit, so thats levelled me up probably 1-2 levels in the last year. I think with all the pua training my inner game has gone up like 1000XP over the last year. i've got a couple of bosses to kill then i should be 9-10 in no time. only problem is im still a virgin and my friends beat the shit out of me.
I like AD&D as much as the next guy, but maybe you are focusing too much on inner game instead of actually trying to game women.

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