Lately with my game It's been different from when I first started. For some reason I got better results when I first started this PUA thing because I kept it in my mind all the time and over analyzed everything and spent a while planning what I was going to say via text and such. I do get out & talk to girls in real life though don't get me wrong I am just pretty young and don't get lots of opportunities to get out (can't drive yet) but take me seriously please as I will take your advice that way. Now with my game I don't care what I say, I don't have any anxiety really or am I scared to talk to girls ever since I did/said a bunch crazy random things to hot girls when I went through this "phase" I guess. There's a plus & a minus to this though of course. I became more impulsive than I usually was, and when being impulsive and having emotions for a girl you really like subconsciously things seem to slip into what I say. This is going to sound crazy but I am 14. Started this somewhere in 2011. But the point of the matter is I do have natural game on certain levels but I seem to mess up when I like a girl a bunch. I'm not the type of person to not let it out when I like a girl, I tell her. And I know how you're not supposed to show interest much and I found that there is almost close to no equilibrium when it comes to attraction between two people. But yeah I should state my problems now sorry for wasting a paragraph on my background.

There's this girl, her names Sidney. Iv'e been talking to her for about a year now. I am a very persistent person and normally don't give up until I get what I want (I know that can be bad but it's my nature) lately I have found that when I really like a girl I only seem to focus on her. When I know I need to be diverse and get more girls on me in order for her to see more value amongst me and thus be more attracted & for myself as well so I don't fall into an obsession track. Bad part is though when I really like a girl other girls don't seem that appealing to me. She is the only girl now that can actually give me adrenaline when I come in contact with her. It almost surprises me. Considering I almost banged a hot blonde big tit's 19 year old with no fear involved in a one night stand. But I didn't want to waste my virginity on her. (I know what a pussy me right) I at least want to know her well before I lose my virginity to girl. But back to Sidney. I was texting her when I messed up recently accidentally slipping into a conversation on how I liked her. ._.

This is where I want to start it at (and please don't on me I know I did bad I bash on myself enough. I'm just looking for advice I know I messed up just need some tips and reminders because I'm messing up a bit lately)

Me:(I know I shouldn't have asked this when knowing I'm not supposed to care what she thinks that shows I'm secure thus more confident) "Lol Sidney do you even think about sex with me? (not that I care I GOT THEM CHICKS ON MY DICK NIGGA ^__^)

Her: "No lmao"

Me:"Haha never? I have been told I have a nice body nigga I don't see the prob" (I'm hoping this didn't make me sound desperate now that I'm re-reading all of this.)

Her:"Lol and?"

Me:(Where I mess up as far as getting into what I THINK of the situation. I hate myself sometimes) "I just don't get it. We've talked forever & both sexy. Yet the dick is not on your mind sometimes when you text me. It doesn't make sense to my brain much. Idk."

Her:" Lol well, idk."

Me:(Stupid long responses, I put to much value into my text messages to receive such little back please forgive my occasional ways T__T my liking towards her got the best of me at this point and I started talking of what was on my mind) "I mean It's straight but dang nigga I never put so much effort into a chick. It's cray. I mean eventually they end up wanting the dick but you complicate me. Lmao."

Her:"Lol sorry"

Me:"Lol don't apologize I said it's straight, ethier way I'll be fine no matter what. Cause I mean a nigga can get a girl when a nigga wants its just he chillin haha."

Her:"Oh ok."

Me:(So stupid I feel like a useless ego booster right now. I don't even know what made me want to say this.) "You best feel daanng special nigga haha I went this long after yo ahh. But a nigga needs to hang his coat up eventually after a long day at work you feel. ^__^"

(As you can see this new species of AFC is attempting to strike some emotion into this girl by giving her the sense that he is "giving up" in this case. Seeing if he could pick up an aroma of her missing him. But of course she is distracted by what is said of her, lets watch) - National Geographic Channel

Her:"Lol I do feel special ^_^"

(Skipping useless parts of us texting to the main parts)

Me:(This after a personal thing we talked about)"Lol you're so mean. I can keep my coat on if you want me to (I realized I shouldn't have said this after sending the text, I accidentally gave her power.) BUT I gotta know if you like me or not. IF NOT IT'S STRAIGHT. I have candidates for my #2 right now.

Me again:"Wait wait that sounded weird. What that meant was I will keep the coat on if you like me but if not I'm heading out."

Her:"Oh so If I don't like you, you're not going too talk to me again?"

Me:(Realizing I should have said yes but fearing her resentment I carried on saying this.) "I just wont like like you anymore. Meaning my attraction for you would be "heading out" leaving.

Her:"Oh ok"

Me" You gotta answer me? Lol do you like me, or not." (She didn't reply for awhile and instead of being dumb I was instead not caring how I handled this and did an AFC move.. The double Tri-text back. Please hear me out, I liked her alot. I know that this is such a big no no but I felt that I deserved a response after us talking for so long.)

Me:"-.- It's yes or no baby." (I call her that sometimes. No reply so I texted her in the morning)

Me:(Sent her a picture of a bag of Dorito's "her favorite chips, inside joke.") Captioned: YOU CAN'T IGNORE THESE DORITO'S BABY. (I know that the impatience and the sound of that sentence was a turn off ;/ I just.. idk.)

Her:"No"

Me:(Stupid double response I did again fml.) 1. You don't? 2. You are in that "idk" feeling arn't you.

Her:"No lol"

Me:"Ok haha so you don't like me right?"

Her:"Right."
(I feel I set myself up for this. Like I made this happen because I saw it inevitable.)

Me:(AN IDIOT DOING THE DOUBLE RESPONSE AGAIN ok you guys can bash on me I deserve it.) 1.Ok haha 2. I'll text you when we're on the same page again. I get over it quick af so we'll be talking as friends again soon ^__^ alright nignig? (Stupidly I ruled out any possibility of her feeling as if she lost something. And now pay for my consequence by facing the famous idc one letter word.)

Her:"K"

(I stopped replying finally someone needs to duct tape my fingers.)

If you took the time to read my crisis of failure I thank you bunches. ANY ADVICE would be appreciated. Even "go kill yourself." Thank you. I understand at this point I should give up.. I hate doing that though. I really do put my all into what I want and I don't like thinking of my time as "wasted" ;/ any other options considered would be great. But I understand a majority of your answers will be "Give up, move on." I feel like this is just me looking for the inevitable again.

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I noticed a number of problems with what you said my friend. First and foremost never apologize. It takes value away from you. You should be the one giving value. Watch any pua good at natural game in the field and you'll notice that they never apologize for anything. My personell favorite response when some one expects to me apologize is simply "You'll get over it". Second bro you just need to go out and lose your virginity. You want to lose it to a girl you care for and know well. Hey I can respect that man. But there aint room for a virgin to be a pua. My advice to you man is just lose it and fast. Doesnt matter who or what she looks like, you just need to get it over with. It sounds to me you want an possible relationship with this girl. I point you to the famous Ross Jeffries who once said "Every passionate relationship ive had started out passionately". If you want the girl I advise you to sleep with her fast as you can. Now on to your conversation with (Sidney). Never ask a girlo if shes thinking about having sex with you. Its too direct and comes off as patheic and needy. Never brag about your body. You made this conversation way to direct and sexual from the get go. Your conversations need to be short and direct, but not overtly sexual. They need to build sexual tension NOT to convince her to sleep with you. Your replies always need to be short. No one wants a 5 page text. You always need to be the one ending the conversation, whether its by saying you have to go to work or your tired, it doesnt matter. Suggest simple meet ups to get her alone so you can escalate. Never talk about anything super important over text with her. That should always be done in person where you have a wider array of emotions and context you can add into it.

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Thanks dude I appreciate it.

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You're trying way too hard dude. Waaaaay too hard.

If I text a girl and she gives me one or two short responses, I bail on it. I just tell them I have something else to do.

You kept going and going and going, desperately trying to impress her. Stop trying to impress girls, stop getting oneitis! Unless a girl has had sex with you a few times and its mind blowing NEVER act like she's the only girl for you. I know you said when you like a girl you just want her, but (provided this is bs) you just have to not think like that.

Ugh, a couple of times in my life now I've passed up a hook up with a hottie because there was some girl I've thought was amazing. Both times I regretted it majorly, both times I said I'd never do it again.

Just don't! As above, get laid, do it fast, ignore this girl for a while. Then after a few months of enjoying yourself start up the interaction and have another shot. You have to leave it now. Nothing smells worse than desperation, you look sooo fkn desperate here.

Yeah I am different from then now, I tightened up a my game better after that shit. Got a better frame and learned more and refreshed my memory why I'm in this. Not to get one-itis. TO FUCK HOT BABES! never the less, got my confidence back, got more hobbies and out sarging when I can be. The reason I am so persistent is because I have strong will power. I don't let up easy when it comes to anything I want, even if I have to restart the whole process. Lol. But I know that if the forecast says a storm is coming I just need to let it happen because eventually it will pass and not run out into it or I might get zapped by Zues or something. So what I guess I need to do now when It comes to girls that act like that is freeze them out, get other girls and possibly come back for her later. That's good because for one I don't invest too much into one girl if I freeze her out and go get other girls, and it doesn't give off that desperate/needy scent, and I can more than likely avoid one-itis freezing the girl out occasionally. But yeah I'm working on my frame and NEVER want some crap like that to put me in that confidence scarce position. I am a man dang it, I don't have to put up with it. So I brought my confidence back and realized there are hotter girls than her. I don't know what put me into that illusion that she was like top shit when she wasn't. I guess it's because of how much I invested and didn't want it to go to waste. That shows how powerful investment can be. It was like this, she showed GREAT interest in me at the beginning, then let up and played hard to get. It was pretty much like she got me facing towards her & teased me only to get me to run after her when she ran in hopes that I could f*** the s*** out of her. Thanks for the replies though guys.

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