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So last night I texted her while out at the bar "come meet me out" she replies 20 minutes later asking where I was, I tell her and then another 20 minutes goes by and she texts me saying "im playing wii" So about an hour later I text her again(probably a bad move) saying "you cant still be playing, come meet me now" No response the rest of the night. I get a text this morning saying "im not proud of this but we were playing wii til 3am" I replied with "wow thats hardcore" and that's where I stand now. Don't know what my next move should be. I want to hang with this girl as much as possible since she's going back to Virginia in 4 days. How do I get her to come out without sounding needy? I may have blown it by not escalating enough the first two days. I'm ready to up my kino and see where I stand, just need to somehow hang with her again, I need a plan for this weekend
Flake? and ohh not a smooth move haha, i probably would have said something like 'Dedicated to the game! I ran into some old friends at the bar and it was a right laugh' because you just make it out like youre fine anyway regardless of her hahahaha, its worked with me and girls seem to chase me, hmmmm okay, so ive almost finished the book 'The game' by neil strauss aka Style, this one girl in there stands out to him and all that, and she surprises him when he least expects it. Id try and surprise her but make it casual, take her out for some coffee, first of all this will stimulate the amount of dopamine in the brain and help to create some energy, and then perhaps move to another place, get some food, keep talking, go the the cinema as i call it, or movies in america haha, and bounce from place to place, this in effect will add some time distortion and make it feel like you have been out for a long time, i think i learned that from mystery so all props to him, thats some rough advice you could use, but don't seem too needy, avoid 'CAN we go here' and be direct, 'Lets go grab a coffee over there across the street' etc, good luck with this girl, your going to need to close the deal soon
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