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And sometimes a girl is worth fighting for, right. Often the most direct path to our goal, is not the direct one. It is alright to loose a little only to learn from it and correct it - even with the same girl.
In any game, you will lose ground once in a while, but only losers declare a loss before the game is actually over! Don't move on before you know the game to really be over - that is just cowardly.
No girl is worth fighting for within the first weeks of interaction, hell even months, it takes awhile to find out the true nature of someone and be able to build a strong connection with them. In this situation, why would you fight over a girl who you don't even know is even "worth" it, you barely know her. She's not being responsive, go on to the next girl, she missed out on a great opportunity. I'm not going to break my back for a girl whom I assume is amazing just because she was able to impress me in the first few interactions.
I'll fight for a girl when me and her have been to hell and back and I know she's someone I'd like to spend a lot more time with. You just don't try that hard for someone who doesn't deserve it, if I don't know who she really is, why put forth the effort? I could be putting in half the effort to someone new who could potentially be way better in every aspect than last one who left. If you fought for every girl that you talked to and got away, you must really think you can't find better. You're clearly suffering from the, I got her, I had her, now I want her back syndrome. You become deceptively attracted to her because you don't understand where you went wrong. Your attraction becomes so strong because your constantly replaying interactions to find out what happened and in the process you only focus on her good qualities. Get over her and move on.