A very difficult 10 need some help.

The History: This girl was in the complex where I own my business. A perfect 10 and the proof was once I started talking to her, a few of the more prevy business owners came up to me and started asking me how I know her and asked when I started talking to her. She was hot and cold day to day and shortly after she quit her job, I moved my business etc. so fine. I had a couple of girls on the go so I forgot about her.

6 months ago, I ran into her while getting my hair cut. One of the few girls that ever actually makes me a bit uneasy and I'll explain why in a second. We traded info, she added herself to my facebook and a couple of days later her status went to "In a relationship." The guy some little douchebag that was on the couch at her work when we started talking. Regardless I don't waste my time on girls who are taken. There are plenty out there.

There were two challenges with this girl.

1) She's a Korean and language is an issue. When normally I can establish a hook and make a girl laugh, a lot of my little limericks and teasers get lost in translation. I confirmed this by sending another girl I'm dating into her Salon to meet her and talk about me and her comments were, "He's so funny but sometimes I'm so confused when I talk to him." This is when I get uneasy.

2)She's extremely fickle. When I first knew her, my friend (old man) who owned the coffee shop where I first gamed her said, "I don't understand her. One day she's the nicest girl I've ever met and the next day she pretends that me and my staff are total strangers."


Yesterday I logged on my facebook account and guess who I saw a big picture of and status change. "is now single."


My Question: This is a perfect girl to experiment with. Anyone have any tactics to suggest. I'm going to book and appointment with another person at her Salon which I know will bother her. I'm not a "canned sort of guy" although I'm thinking I should maybe try something canned if I run into this language barrier again. Anyone have any suggestions?

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Wait what? You sent another girl that you're dating into the salon to get intel and this girl didn't care? That seems odd lol. Anyway, maybe you should learn some Korean haha!

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Auni Hasao!. I'm actually trying to learn, funny you mention that. Yes, I was seeing with another Asian girl who is bi. She needed to get her hair done and I know she would find this 10 hot so I figured it would be a perfect opportunity. The bi Asian is Chinese though so she had the same language barrier issue. Also newly bi-sexual and she doesn't know how to pic up girls yet. And yes we "explored" her bi-sexuality with another Asian girl with another. All these Asian girls and I'm really not so into Asians usually. Who knew they were so much fun. (that's my tip of the week)

Anyway, let's keep on point. This 10. Suggestions?

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Is the guy she *was* dating Korean? If so, I don't like your chances. If not, game on!

I like your mindset on this girl -- it's clear you don't have oneitis but rather that you're treating her like she's good practice, which is really the way you should treat every woman, regardless of how hot she is.

So practice diversifying your seduction skills. If you expect to see her in the salon, then make sure you talk to your own stylist with a deeper, slightly louder voice than usual, to show how unafraid you are of having attention. (Heh, I do this every time I go for a haircut, just to get a laugh when the women crane their head to find the man behind the voice.)

If you have the chance to talk to her, pause between words and look deep in her eyes. Make small talk, but with an intensity or tone of voice that makes it sexually charged. Mastery of these subtleties will drive a woman crazy. Touch her shoulder lightly as you say something very sincere and complimentary.

Give up on humor, at least for this girl. Because humor is so dependent on language. It's usually my biggest weapon, too, but I had to give up on it when I was dealing with this beautiful Latina. We never did manage to have good conversations, but the sex became a language of its own.