HI;

Couple things I need to address with you;

1) When you came to Sudbury you told me you were taking me to Le Château to buy a pink dress to wear for Valentine's Day with you, when there you purchased clothes for yourself, and the dress you said you were going to buy for me, well... you didn't. I had even told my mom that you were doing this for me. (To clear things up; this isn't a part of a valentine's day gift that I received on vday... this was a prior thing you had told me you were doing... etc...)

2) When I told you my ex was a douche, bought us tickets and I stated he payed for them, and then he didn't want to spend his money on me... and returned them, and we didn't go on the trip, long story short you said my ex is a loser, and that you'll treat me right. I also said at one point that I can't go on a trip to the music festival because I'm not working, and you said it's all good I'll take care of it babe.

I'm not saying you should buy me things, and I'm clearing that up so you don't think that and then we have another misunderstanding... but you say things to me and then don't follow through with them.. my mom actually questioned me about the whole dress situation.

I have the text messages saved between us and you stating all the above statements that have now led into unfortunate and saddening misunderstandings. Therefore when you said to me last night "I don't know how you ever got that impression," that is how.

Once again, don't come to me and say,.. I'm acting spoiled, or that I expect these things from you, because I don't... however this is what you lead me to believe. I don't have a job, therefore I don't understand why you would think I can pay you back for a trip to Florida... that'd also be why my mom was going to buy me a flight from Toronto to Sudbury... If you look back - seriously Tom, you would have known that, that was the impression you have me..

Thanks for the reply.

The dress was originally going to be the vday gift but I opted for the better of the two and went with the watch. I didn't say I was going to get it for her then didn't, I got her something better instead. Its only been two months together but the relationship has progressed really fast and while an Mk watch may seem like a lot she equally spent on me with a Niagara falls beer and wine tasting trip.

Maybe I have set up being the provider for her but I don't know how to get out of it when she doesn't have a job because she's in school. I don't want her to assume I'll be paying for things like this.

I never offered to pay for the trip and I didn't just spring it on her to pay her way at the last minute. It was always that she was expected to pay her way until she told me otherwise at the last minute that she couldn't. Or wouldn't. She won't do a pay-me-back later deal either so I think she just likes me to spend on her. If I'm not paying she doesn't want to go.

I didn't say I would buy you the dress, I said maybe cupid will get it for you as a Valentine's day GIFT not that I'm getting it for you to WEAR on Valentine's day. That would've been your Valentine's day gift.

I didn't get the dress because I wanted to surprise you with something better. If you really liked the dress I figured you could buy it yourself or your mom could buy it if you wanted it so badly. The watch is a timeless piece you can wear everyday I don't know why you are upset about this as the dress you would probably only wear once. If you still want the dress I can give you a gift receipt for the watch and you can bring it back and get the dress.

I meant I could take care of the housing situation as my uncle has a condo there. Hotels are a costly part of the trip and a flight alone is alot cheaper then having to worry about paying for a hotel as well. I mentioned the trip because I thought you were working part time or could do some cleaning or side job for earned cash so you start saving up for it because it would be you paying for your half and me covering myself and the boarding. I would of course help cover dinners. I don't think it's right for you to mention the ex because its irrelevant to the whole situation and you can't compare me and the things I do to another person ex or not.

Well did your mother like the watch I got you or does she think the dress would have been better? You can't expect me to always cover for you as I'm goin to school too so I have money tied up in it and investments as well. I'd like to help you out when I can and I hope you appreciate what I do for you when I can and do nice things for you.

I don't think you act spoiled but you need to respect me when I can't always do the things for you that I wish I could. I do try my best to make you happy. I want you to enjoy fun things with me but you will need to bring something to the table at times if its not too much to ask.

Yeah when she told me she was out to dinner tonight that was the last straw. I will not be her provider and already got 3 new numbers to hit up tomorrow. If her response is good I'll use her for sex and not pay for anything and see how long she lasts anything negative and she's cut.