You're not a bitch, OP. You're a smart guy. You just ran into a woman who is more socially savvy than you.
Void keeps giving "speak your need" advice to guys who are still courting a woman. It's terrible, needy advice for gorgeous women in the early stages.

She's not socially savvy. She's more socially retarded. I've never come across a woman that refuses to let me know where she lives even though she's had sex with me unless she was hiding something about her home life. You have this thing where you think that just because a woman is good looking it makes her act like sociopaths or clinically defined as narcissists. This isn't normal behavior for any woman.

She's not socially savvy. She's more socially retarded. I've never come across a woman that refuses to let me know where she lives even though she's had sex with me unless she was hiding something about her home life. You have this thing where you think that just because a woman is good looking it makes her act like sociopaths or clinically defined as narcissists. This isn't normal behavior for any woman.

EDIT: Damn...Neo beat me to it.

Guess what Arch, he didnt walk her out after sex, she confronted him, you said great she's chasing. Then what? Did she invite him over? Did she fuck him? This move you congratulated, see...it didnt change anything. In fact, from OP's words, the chick still didnt see him until he asked for a phone call. So if the not walking her out was a good move, there were no results from it.
OP, you did not speak your needs. First, speaking your needs isnt started with a text saying, hey this isnt working for me, otherwise take care. Then, when she called, she spoke her needs and you brought up your needs but you were more concerned with hers. I cant speak for void, fuck it, I'll speak for void...he nor I or anyone was saying to do this.

Look man, my personal opinion this girl is feeding you bs. Maybe she has a bf at home, maybe she is fucking other dudes and lied abt it, maybe she's not interested and doesnt want to put in effort, maybe she doesnt like the sex, maybe she has intimacy issues. But the chick is bsing on you. Cause guess what man, if this was about feeling like you dont care, youve asked her to talk more, SHE is the one rushing out after sex. Chick knows you like her and she's claiming she's on the same page to hold back.

Something's up. This is like a girl cheating on her bf. When the bf tries to fuck her, she creates distance to not have sex with him. Thats like your chick. She's purposefully creating distance and either its intimacy or something else. Guess what, if it were because you were needy, she already isnt fucking you, she already sees you 1x a week. Shed just ghost you. There is something with this chick where she just doesnt want to/cant talk to you like that, stay after sex or invite you over. Because if she did, she would.

My clinical view from the limited information posted is that its possible she has an ambivalent/avoidant attachment style. In lay terms, she holds some unhealthy views towards closeness to others; when she senses her vulnerability in a relationship she seeks proximity to feel safe again. The issue isn't intimacy itself its more that there's a learned pattern of behavior where fear of vulnerability overrides there ability to seek closeness to another.

She may not be this way, however she does seem to spend a lot of energy distancing herself from the Op, or at least keeping him at an arm's length away w/o really getting close.

This is incredibly stupid.

All women do this when they're not sure about a guy.

Don't be so quick to label women as defective or damaged. When in most cases its just the laws of attraction at play. You're revealing your limited experience with women, Void when you act like women who are independent and strong are somehow all flawed psychologically.

Maybe the OP isn't doing it for her?

Maybe the OP overplayed the "smooth" puickup artst early on.

Maybe she is really busy.


These are more likely than your amateurish armchair diagnoses.

I've never come across a woman that refuses to let me know where she lives even though she's had sex with me unless she was hiding something about her home life.

That's because the women you date don't accrue stalkers.

Gorgeous women are typically more careful and patient when determining the emotional state of a man because they have this type coming out of the woodwork.

That's because the women you date don't accrue stalkers.

Gorgeous women are typically more careful and patient when determining the emotional state of a man because they have this type coming out of the woodwork.

That's because the women you date don't accrue stalkers.

Gorgeous women are typically more careful and patient when determining the emotional state of a man because they have this type coming out of the woodwork.

I like how you tell me about my life and what I do. It's cute.

Let me tell you how women really are. Once they assume you are worth having sex with when it comes to multiple occasions, they're not worried about you being a stalker. In fact, they will find reasons to think as many positive things as they can about you. Women want to think the best of you and after sex is when the wall comes down. If they are having sex with you but scared you may be a stalker, it's more likely that there is something wrong with them.

Let me tell you how women really are. Once they assume you are worth having sex with when it comes to multiple occasions, they're not worried about you being a stalker. In fact, they will find reasons to think as many positive things as they can about you.

When you start dating the more socially valuable women, Jack, you'll see this play out more often.