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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Mack... I know that your intentions are good. But I do not want an open relationship. My relationships are exclusive and that's always been like this and it always will be like this.

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My ex wife and i went through something like this, honestly... dont talk to her about it as you said the problem lies with you and talking only signifies weakness. Instead think about this, next time you think your suffocating her go out, go for a jog, pull your car apart, whatever helps you centre yourself. I know this doesnt sound like it will help at bedtime when you feel needy and want to fuck but if you get the emotional crap your putting yourself through out of the way during the day it helps her be more interested. Like someone said get your sexual energy elsewhere, but it doesnt need to be sexual. Im a mechanic, i used to just go to the shed and build my toys when i felt needy or like i was going to suffocate (my ex) and honestly... lets just say cos i got rid of the afc behaviors she'd often come to the workshop and fuck my brains out... Basically role reversal/ then she felt needy because i was doing something interesting and fun
Hope this makes sense

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Thanks Desert Lion! Very good advice indeed. That's exactly what I need. I'm getting tired of that for almost every problem that is brought up on this forum the answer is "bang some chicks".

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i don't personally care what you do.

what i do notice is that you aren't really looking for ideas, even ones that will provoke thoughts or growth, so much as you are looking for reinforcement of your views.

i'm not into open relationships either. this has nothing to do with this.

the point is, you ask for advice, and then dismiss it - with extreme prejudice - without even considering what is said.

you are going through this thread cherry-picking and saying "nope" and "yep" and "shut up" and "thanks".

unless you've got your game locked down so tight that you have nothing to learn and no opposing view could ever lead you to learn, then you are seeming quite close-minded.

i have no personal investment in anything you do.

good luck.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

No Mack. That's not the case. Actually, looking for sexual energy in other chicks too was a very good point of your advice. I appreciate it. I never told anyone to shut up. Besides. It's only been a few days since I stopped "asking" for sex and we've already fucked twice. I don't want anyone to proove my point, because the results already proove me.

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