There is this girl i still like but since i will never get her i have moved on with my life. She just called Me to tell me she hooked up with a good friend of mine while They were in rhodos and feels guilty, i played it cool like i dont Care about it. To be true i only care a little because bros before hoes is more important to me. But i care that he never told Me about it since we are friends, this makes me question our friendship and the loyality to each other and it makes me sad that i found out from her and not from him and he knows how i feel about her. Should i bring it up or just move on since its not really the biggest deal in the world when i feel shes just a girl.

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

Are you sure its not the fact she hooked up with him that bothers you? If not, you should definitely ask him. There must be a reason why he didnt tell about that. Honesty is always the key to everything.

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jakslip~

let it go.

he is nailing her now.

like you said, bros before hoes.

maybe she has a friend she can hook you up with,

and you all can double date!

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Hey guys so this is what happen. Tell.Me if i did things.the wrong way. The girl texted Me last night asking if i wanted to come over. I respectelly Tell her "okey, im gonna have to pass and i will get right to the point and tell u why,.i know i will hit on u and i dont think ure ready.for that but thanks anyway." She calls Me upand literally tells.Me it is okay. So i went to her place, we talked, we fucked we went to.bed. so i wake up, wake har up and i leave. Now she has regrets and says she did not plan to have sex. So my question is did i or did i not make it.clear that i came for sex?

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

^Lol, it was pretty damn obvious you came over to have sex w her . . . She's just trying to cover up to avoid making herself feel guilty, considering the fact she's hooked up w your friend as well.

Don't mind that. Put the blame on you and go on w your life. Hit on her again and again if you so like her, don't let this stop you.

I thought so to i think its childish of her playing "innocent games" since she chose Me to come knew the deal, went all in. I want to thank u guys for giving Me your share! I respect that.

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

Hey again I clearly dont know how to handle this situation in the best way. She is going to call me tonight she says to talk this trough so there are two ways for me to handle this either i take the blame like little panda said or i stand up for my rights and be dominating.

If i take the blame i would have to say something like that its my fault for.even considering doing what i did and it was stupid.


Being dominant would make Me say you wanted me to come, and because of that you were ok with sex at the moment it clearly was something u wanted. There are no excuses for our actions because they speak for.themselves.

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

You misunderstand. What I'm trying to say is that we are guys, and women will blame us for many things to avoid feeling guilty. This holds true ESPECIALLY for sex. Say a woman tries blaming you that sex occurred between the two of you. What do you got to lose? Nothing. Your friends won't call you a dirty whore and then turn their backs against you. Her friends just might.

My point is, by taking the blame I am NOT saying that you tell her "It's my fault, I'm so sorry, buhuuu" - I'm just saying, let it happen. Tell her "I was clear with my intentions when I was coming over. I told you I was going to hit on you and it happened. It's also probably continue happening because I still like you. If you don't want to be a part of this, I will understand."

So in other words, simply state your intentions again and let her understand that last time you had sex was because you wanted it. No problem with that. You're anyway supposed to be the one that makes it happen, right? You're the man here. That's what I mean with if she blames you for it - don't fight back. It's alright, because it doesn't affect you in any way and it doesn't matter for you, as a man, WHY the sex happened.

As simple as that.

Im going to take your advice since it sounds good and sincere.
Its just something like that I want to say but im not good expressing myself in a good and sincere way. That was a really good reply! Thanks alot panda!

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

We've talked so I just wanted to tell how it went.
She blames it on the alcohol wich I think is a lame excuse but I just went with it to get this trough so we both can move on with our lives and put this behind us.
I got what I wanted, she got anxiety. Girls are funny hahaha
Thanks for the support!

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There are 2 kinds of people when you boil it all down, you got your talkers and you got your doers.
Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.

No fuck no !!!!! Get revenge!!! Get hotter girls than her and make her see you dont give a shiit about her. Stop acting BETA. Yes i agree with taking rsponsablty and being mature about it but Alpha males never show this. Make her chase you and sleep with her. If your "friend" took her away get revenge from that bitch and act inoccent. Survival of the fittest!

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Risktrump

Yeah because 'alphas' are men of revenge that seek to destroy a girl mentally and show her who the boss is.

Get back into the sandbox kid

LOL!

I think Mr. Trump didn't bother to read the thread.

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lol i was in akindda crazy state of mimd but yea you did great. lmfao

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