Come in her hand, that will teach her. Just kidding. Yeah, this is an annoying thing girls sometimes do, give you an effiel tower in your pants and then nothing, shes teasing you. next time shes fondling, why not tell her shes only allowed two more 2 strokes? It will make her want to give you more. Take some control back. Or even say you dont enjoy the feeling of her touching your cock unless your turned on... "I like to get kissed before i get fucked..." haha classic.
its ok, in moderation. Id say dont touch her breasts or ass, start on the shoulders and escelate, read up on where her zones are that turn her on, like the hair line on the back of her neck etc, then cut it short once you can see shes getting turned on.

Its clear to me you need to take control back. Masterbate you socks off so your not too horny with her and keep your cool around her however much she turns you on

in psychology a girls sexual desire drop off when shes not attracted to someone and is staying in the relationship so she doesn't have to be alone.

On the other hand look into any medications as well as hormonal changes such as birth control or anything of the sort

"its ok, in moderation. Id say dont touch her breasts or ass, start on the shoulders and escelate, read up on where her zones are that turn her on, like the hair line on the back of her neck etc, then cut it short once you can see shes getting turned on."

My gf likes me to do this to her in a non-sexual way. She says it relaxes her. There are many times when i try to escalate from doing this and she says she's "too tired" or she "has to get up early" or some other excuse. Although, there are some times when it has led to sex.

"Its clear to me you need to take control back. Masterbate you socks off so your not too horny with her and keep your cool around her however much she turns you on"
Thanks!

"in psychology a girls sexual desire drop off when shes not attracted to someone and is staying in the relationship so she doesn't have to be alone."

That has been the very thing I have been trying to figure out for a while now. We used to average having sex about 6 or 7 times a month. (I would have liked more, but I was okay with it). But lately her drive seems to be declining even more. I'll give you some positives and negatives and see what you guys think:

Positives - She tells me every day that she loves me. Along with this she tells me how handsome and sexy I am frequently. Often times she makes sexual innendos and talks about how much she enjoys sex. Tells me she wants to have sex so I don't find some other girl to do it with. And we still do have sex.

Negatives - A lot of times she has intentions to have sex but we have to wait several hours before we can do it and she becomes tired or not feeling well. She likes to be rubbed in her private areas, but usually in a non-sexual way. Sometimes I start to make out with her and escalate and shortly after she starts giggling or saying that tickles. She also says that it hurts her when I am penetrating her. Even though it hurts her, she says she wants to continue to try and have sex.

It is frusturating sometimes with my gf. I don't know if she really wants to have sex, but is genuinely tired or whether she is trying to use sex to gain an upper hand.

Several days ago we were driving, talking about how we enjoy sex and she said something along the lines of "We can't have sex tonight" I told her "that's fine" She said she was just saying that to see what I would say.

So last night we were lying in bed and she said she wants to give me blowjob tomorrow. I said "that's okay, you don't have to". She got upset and took offense.

The lapse in time between us having sex sucks. I am afraid that if I decline her offer to have sex when she is in the mood that will turn her off even more and she might loose all sexual interest.

cheers

Saying no will turn her off for that night. Think about it, when she says no to you, don't you get turned off for only that night, but then the next day you are even more horny? The same thing will happen to her.

I think I have a useful tip for you. I tried this with my girlfriend, and it worked. I stayed away from her for a week, then met her and then stayed away for another week. Now, I don't mean you should just ignore her. Convince her that it's a good idea to spend some time apart to get those really strong feelings for eachother back. You will see that you'll miss eachother and when you meet again your feelings will hopefully explode with love

Thanks everyone, but I honestly don't know what happened here.

On Jan 15 (The latest post I made in this thread) my girlfriend was on the last day of her period. Since the 16th, we have had sex every day. We even did something extremely fetish related which she when thru with and was a fantastic sport and really enjoyed it, and then directly after that we had sex again. She left for her college dorm today and even though we only spent about 2 hours together we had sex. Today I told her that we've had sex every day (7 day in a row, 8 times total )since her period ended and she didn't even notice that we were doing it that much. Almost every time we had sex it was seriously the best sex I've ever had.
This is the most we have both ever had sex.

I can really said I did little to nothing differently, mainly because I didn't have time/need to at all.

hey man dont wory

girls are like busses miss one thers 20 more comming

u just need confidence and playa plya mentality and the world is yours man

Thanks aj, your words really spoke to me

keep up that pua mentality