Hey guys, so i dont really know where to start but ill give it a try. currently i am in jackson mississippi, i am living in a halfway house and just was in an inpatient drug rehab for 45 days. i am changing and fixing my life for the better becuase the drugs really fucked it up. but i figured sense i was fixing that part of my life i can start to change my female and pua aspect. i have been interested in sarging and pua's for a bit now but never really invested my whole life into it. but that time is now. i want what you guys have, i want to be where you are at. i will get there but things can be real difficult now becuase of my addiction problems. so any words of wisdom or comments or anything at all im excited and glad to be on the forums with you guys. -Shawn aka Skoobz.

Hey Skoobz, I'll tell you from personal experience, it's a tough road sometimes but you have to start from the end and work backwards.

My quick advice would be to envision where you want to be and realistically how long it will take you to get there. Start forming your life now so that it will end up that way.

Think about it like this - let's say I'm broke with no car. I know I want a car and have a job that is nearby. Instead of going into debt to buy a car I barter services (painting houses, construction, fix computers, whatever I can do) for a bicycle that makes it quicker to get to/from work and hooks up my cardio every day. I save $300 per month (average car payment) for 3 years while biking to/from work and not only is my body transformed but in 3 years I have $10,800 to buy a car with and have no car payment.

Now I have a car and spend maybe $50 in gas a month so I'm saving $250 a month that I have to party with - oh yeah, did I mention I have a car now.

The point is, it's not an overnight process so plan ahead to reach a goal and define that goal realistically. Throwing game doesn't have to cost much but it does take planning and preparation so hook up a friend with a nice crib, a couple nice outfits, and a ride (unless you're somewhere you can pull of a taxi). Read all of the forums and take the newbie challenge to gain some confidence then go for it, I'm sure you'll do well in the end.