Nice to meet everyone! I appreciate the forum and the community around it. I’ve come to PUA a few times in the past for information. I decided to create an account because I’ve been getting into game more seriously over the past few months. I’d also like to share any knowledge of value I’ve gained to help other guys out.

A little background information on me. I’m in the reserves. I got back from active duty and started my first semester of college in Jan. I’m doing my undergrad in business, with plans for medical school down the road.

I had a very poor upbringing. Both parents were horrible. As a result I never really learned proper socialization skills. Or what the basic framework of how things should be. I was pretty much your stereotypical weak ass “nice guy”. Eventually I got involved with a diagnosed sociopath, which I obviously did not know about until much later. She was absolutely beautiful and a freak.

She preferred to target nice guys for a variety of reasons. Needless to say, she ran circles on me everyday for years and burned me fucking hard with no remorse. I am thankful for it though. Its that event that led me to redpill philosophy. Redpill philosophy taught me to see the world for how it really is, not what we think it is.

It’s probably important to note that I am not a misogynist. I have no anger towards women as a whole due to a few bad ones. Plenty of bad guys out there too. I don’t agree with all aspects of redpill philosophy, I take the parts that make sense to me and throw out the rest.

I’m now a very confident and happy guy. I can talk to girls all day long. I no longer need or seek outside validation. The most important relationship you can have, is with yourself.

A few months ago I had never even been in a club. The mere thought of it scared the shit out of me. I could barely even talk to people. Over the past two months or so, my game has drastically increased.

None of my friends had game, or wanted to go out clubbing. So I started by going alone every time. It was really shitty at first, but I got experience quick. I had a shit ton of awkward moments. But I learned from them and it helped me out in the long run. Because of that, I don't need groups to go out and have fun. I can pretty much jump into random groups of people and make friends.

So to sum it up. I believe I have decent game but it still needs much improvement. I’m hoping by joining the forum I can learn from the more experienced guys. And also share anything useful I have learned.

If you took the time to read my post, I appreciate it!

It was so interesting. I am a new member here too. Nice to meet you here.

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Welcome to the forum.

Here are couple of guides to help you get started:

HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN VAULT

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GUIDE FOR GUYS JUST STARTING OUT

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GUIDE TO OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF YOUR FIRST APPROACH

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If you need some personal help, I'm also doing some free coaching.

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