| Hey guys, would like to ask your advice about this girl that I've started dating recently.
I think I messed up my chances with this girl, even though our first date went really well and we had sex at the end of it. I’ll try to keep the story as short as possible:
Met this girl week and a half ago through social circle, at a party. Really cute petite ginger girl(HB 8.5). Immediately had a connection, spent good 2 hours in total talking to her, did some kissing but I got the vibe that she is quite prudent and doesn’t sleep with guys that she meets oat house parties/nightclubs (after I kissed her she said she doesn’t even kiss guys at parties). So for that reason didn’t pull her that night, got her number, however.
Texted each other back and forth for a week, again good chat, good connection. Signs of good rapport: I’m going to china next year for a year abroad and I joked that she should come with me and we should make ginger kids(shes ginger), so then Chinese people will stop us on the street and take pictures(since there are no gingers over there) – she replied with ‘ I don’t want them to look ginger, I wanted them to look eastern european’(im eastern European).
Scheduled the date for the same day as my birthday, which might seem weird, but I celebrated the night before and the morning of the birthday, leaving myself the afternoon for a hot date, she thought it was cute(she did know that it wasn’t just the date that ive done for my birthday)
Right before catching out taxi to go to town, she was lying on the bed and I playfully took her by the neck and told her that im not letting her go until she says “master please let me go” – she was giggling and said she loved it (just so you get more of an idea of how good it was going). She did refuse to my request of not going anywhere and just staying at home(perhaps she did not want to be perceived as a slut)
The date went really well, we went out to a nightclub just the two of us(yeah I know, such a weird idea for a date, wasn’t mine), good amount of physical escalation ie kissing, touching etc. She even told her mum about this date(she never went on a date before, let alone with someone who she could tell her parents about), also she mentioned that some of her female friends find me attractive and her male friends think I’m sound.
We got back to her house at 4.30 am and fucked. Tbh I was pretty tired and somewhat drunk, so the sex was average at most, looking back I feel like I could have been less selfish and could have fucked her a lot longer than I did ( about 5 mins each – we fucked twice, at night and in the morning). She kept being really needy and insecure about sleeping with me so fast, I tried to calm her best I could.
Straight after leaving her house I had to go to work, I confidently texted her at work that I will go straight to hers after I finish and asked her what she wanted me to bring ie wine, pizza etc( since all the outside ques that I mention above seemed to indicate that this was a safe thing to do). However she did not reply to the message( I finished work at 11pm) and only replied in the morning saying that she got really tired and fell asleep, to which I replied with an invitation to come to my house and spend time there (face palm), to which she abruptly replied with ‘ive got work and in the evening Im seeing my friend Sarah.
After that I got the vibe that something was off and my confidence faded away. I wasn’t sure whether I should continue texting and pretend nothing happened or do what I usually would have done in a situation like this – leave it alone for a bit. I decided to continue texting, we exchanged about 10 texts. Last text I sent her was at 9am and she only replied at 7.30 pm. I’m definetly not gonna text her for a while after this.
It just seems weird that such an amazing connection with such a beautiful girl will go to shit only coz I made one or two mistakes in a space of less than 24 hours.
Feel like such a bitch ass pussy for writing such a long post on a pick up forum about a girl that I met less than 2 weeks ago, but here I am.
Thanks for reading brothers, any feedback will be appreciated.
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