Damn.... what were you doing to this chick to make her hate you?

As a man, you're the leader. This includes leading the emotional state. You lead your woman into your world of fun by focusing on the moment and being playful.


Love is playful, not serious.

Ignore her "clear up" talks, and just have fun with her. It all sounds so serious "living up to her word", etc.



Women can't be controlled..all you control is how you show up. They will either worship you or flee based on that.

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DUDE.. it wasn't me LOL. This chick literally changed on my ass after the honeymoon phase. I called her out on it like "Yo wtf.. you used to be all sweet and nice. You've changed. What's the deal???" And she told me in a joking but serious way "I had to tie you down somehow". I asked her a few times later and she told me the same thing, but just in a serious way.

BRO! I should've stopped it right there. And I tried a little like "The reason I fell in love with you is b/c of the person you were when I met you" but man she didn't seem to care once she knew she had me. She put on a really sweet girl act in the beginning. Things were going great in the honeymoon phase. And she slowly became a different person. It didn't happen over night, but it was a slowly but surely transition for sure.

You guys only know what I've told you here.. but man there is a lot more to it than that. Like honestly... I'm a good genuine guy. I'm not perfect, but I'm a real easy going type of dude. I got a good heart man. I just wanna smile and have fun. When I'm single, that's what I'm doing. And in the beginning of this relationship that what I was doing. Things just started slowly changing over time. If she was that really sweet girl, for the most part, in the beginning I'd be one happy camper and we wouldn't be at each other's throats. She's really been putting me through hell though... And I've tried my best to accept her changing into this new person that wasn't there when we first met. But man it got to a point where I couldn't even ask her questions in a genuine sweet way b/c she'd throw it back in my face. Dude, I felt like I was stepping on egg shells TO NOT piss her off. She had ME by the balls. Not anymore though.

I know she has a history with stress and sadness/unhappiness and worrying herself, and actually physical health issues. (She coughed up blood yesterday -- Constantly in and out of the docs. This all may be a result of her mental state maybe IDK) This was before me. Even in the honeymoon phase, before we were exclusive, I noticed she talked to me monotonic a lot and I called her out on it. "Hey what's wrong are you depressed?" She even told me several months later is was because she was unhappy or some BS, she didn't tell me then b/c I think she knew it was easy for me to leave back then. (Who wants a depressed person?) I told her "With what exactly?" And she honestly didn't know. She just was unhappy and it was re-occuring. She said her mom suffers from seasonal depression or some BS and so does she. I feel like this girl definitely has issues, and I wouldn't be surprised at all if these issues played a factor in her behavior.

It's weird man. Now that I think of it she used to bring it up to me and say "You ever just feel sad for no reason"... I was like "Uhm no. Thank god I don't have a vagina LOL" cuz I'm thinking that's just a female thing. But it seemed a re-occuring thing... meh... I feel like there are some serious issues going on.

I've only dated a handful of woman, but I don't think it's normal for girls to be like this?

Sounds like a normal woman and a typical relationship where the girl is sweet for the first couple of months, and then the guy beta backslides, the girl gets icy, and then blows the guy off.

I'm sure you're a good guy, but that's the vibe I get. Too many "are you okay?" Texts/convos will create a debbie downer vibe whee girls pull back.

True, she could be fucked up too. But that's out of your control.

When you are consistently applying the fundamental rules, women will be sweet to you 95% of the time. And the "honeymoon phase" lasts for years, not months. If you fail to apply these rules, women who were once sweet will turn on you.

Edit: the hotter and more intelligent a woman is, the more this applies.

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If a girl is acting weird, distant, etc you are suppose to dig and ask questions and find out why until she says something along the lines of "Oh I feel so much better now babe" and then you fuck her.

Man this chick is petty AF. I forgot to mention but in my previous thread RC and Jackzero you guys remember what happened and she knew I was upset at her behavior but she failed to acknowledge it. You know what she did instead??? Blasted me on snapchat, multiple snaps calling me a "FUCKING loser" indirectly. Says she going to delete me from snap. Blablabla. Everyone could see this too. She is extremely immature and petty.

I still put in more of an effort and told her straight up -- When I mess up I need to be the one that fixes things. When she messes up she needs to be the one that fixes things. Guess what her response was? "Yo new phone who dis?"

Obviously she was lying and playing games. She CANT communicate with me like an adult and does immature petty crap ALL THE TIME instead. Arch, sorry you're wrong here. It's not my job to teach her how to be a good communicator. I've read how to be a 3% man MULTIPLE TIMES. That's the way to do it for the most part IMO.

I think you get this vibe of me as even if she complains about something tiny I go into "omg r u okay babe mode?". NO. It's all good vibes. But if I'm having a good vibe and shes naturally killing it because she's not having a good vibe, it's the guys job to open her up to put her in the good vibe state. If she's being bitchy and unwilling to communicate like an adult then you gotta walk

Now you're starting to sound like a fool man.

If you put up with that kind of behavior and stayed with her anyway you deserve everything you got right now. Thats shit was weak as fuck.

Stop the venting and bitching about her now. Its not helping you and its not making you look good to us. You PUT YOURSELF in the situation and YOU accepted unacceptable behavior. If you leave your dinner in a plate on the floor and your dog comes by and eats it you can be angry at the Dog, but don't forget who left the plate of food on the floor. Especially if you never trained the Dog to not eat your food. Like I said before, talking isn't enough... Fines are paid so people learn lessons. No one in the real world just "talks" and expects you not to do something else. Walking isn't the only way to make them pay a "fine" for wrong doing, but thats a whole other topic. In the meantime, just cut it out.

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Bro that happened a few days ago and she quickly deleted it. Fuck her. But you know it didn't happen out of the blue. She would slowly upload petty and throw shade at me on snapchat. Just the last time it was HORRIBLE. "Don't waste your time on FUCKING LOSERS who can't text you back" literally she uploaded like 15 snaps about the situation. Then uploaded more snaps "Deleted!" referencing me being deleted and "It is what it is" as if she's moved on. Please.... there were a number of things.

And no, fuck that. I'ma post here and vent. Why? Because before when I didn't post I thought everything was my fault! I had no balls. So even if she messed up I'd have to fix it. Then I posted and RC and Jackzero really opened my eyes, as well as the rest of the community. You know what I'd do before? Be quiet b/c I was so in my thoughts how to fix things b/c I just didn't fucking know how. Now I can express myself via typing I 1) Feel A WHOLE LOT FUCKING BETTER AND HAPPIER 2) You guys clear things up for me and can tell me if I'm being treated badly or I'm fucking up.

Now do you understand why I lowkey wanna be petty and fuck up her reputation... maybe IDK yet well see in the months to come. But do you see why I wanna be petty and NOT give her her shit back. She has been really rude to me for MONTHS now nigga! And b/c I was still banging her guess what? I kept my calm and composure, but I dealt with it like a dumb ass. Now that I have nothing to lose I'MA DO W/E MAKES ME HAPPY... IDGAF ANYMORE!

Btw you know she threatened to punch me in the face right? You read that part didn't you. Lol my venting doesn't stop.

But w/e.. it is what it is now. I AM NOT going to reach out to that cunt. If she ever does decide to reach out I'ma tell her straight up that there is going to be some SERIOUS changes, and if she's not willing to change them then I don't want to start talking again.

If i'm a betting man I'd say after some time has passed she will reach out, as I did take her virginity and in our culture/religon it's hard for a girl to marry if she's not a virgin. On top of that, in our religon we have this prayer women usually do before marriage right (or any big decision)? Basically you pray and depending on how you feel the next morning you know if you should go with it or not. She did it twice in a row and in both mornings she said she felt good and is now certain that she wants to marry me and sees a happy future, she just doesn't know about dating right now. This was a few days ago. You're suppose to take god's word over your gut any day. He knows whats best for you. (I know a lot of you are athiests and whatnot here, but put yourself in my culture/mindset/her shoes. It does have an affect)

So yeah my Las Vegas me says after sometime you are going to come running back, and if you do there are going to be some MAJOR changes in your behavior. You're going to be that girl that I met in the beginning, NOT that bitch you turned in to. However, if I don't ever hear back from you then have fun explaining to your husband why you're not a virgin. LOLOLOL #Petty #Petty #Petty

How so? Please explain...

Following the fundamental rules will make any woman (crazy, ice queen, feminist, stripper, etc) sweet and feminine in your presence most of the time.

That's just how it works.

It's up to you to choose who you want in your life. By applying those rules, you can keep anyone.

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You're an idiot and you read too much into PUA. I'm sure you're one of those losers that thinks he can pick up any chick. I think I heard you say something along the lines of "If you lead properly you can get your girl to bring other girls in bed for you".. WRONG! Not all girls are liberal like your current girlfriend. There are conservative girls too who you have clearly failed with b/c I know you're speaking from the experience that YOU have.

I can see why she ran away from you, as you come off as emotionally uncentered.

And of course if you don't learn from your failures you are doomed to repeat them.

And as a man, it's up to you to set the frame and lead. If you are fun enough, and good enough in bed, a woman will change her politics for you without asking.

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You're so alpha bro

No. I just understand basic science and employ honesty.

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FUCK! Whip lashing coming into affect! I fucking have that feeling in my chest. I miss her/heart broken feeling. FUCK ME. I'm not going to hit her up, but fuck makes this feeling go away! It's only been 24 hours since no contact FUCK

I dont get it...so this girl is not supposed to be dating you due to your culture...but she posts about your fights on snapchat for other people to see?
You make it sound like this chick is Ms.conservative, when she talks to you like shit, posts her drama on social media openly, and fucks before marriage. I mean, I'm not one saying she should be a virgin, but how is her religion going to get her to come back to you, when her religion didnt keep her from having sex?

That being said, you need to grow up, no offense. You're erratic as fuck, overly emotional and you truly dont have any idea about who you are or what you stand for. You really want a chick to be with you because she HAS to because of some virgin law? That would make you happy to have someone who is tied to you for the rest of her life? Sorry man, I'm not seeing a good man here...I'm seeing a terrible boy. You held onto this girl by taking her virginity. You'd be just fine having her knowing she's only with you because she's "used." In a couple days if she doesnt reach out, I fully expect you to go the blackmail route : "You better call me or I'm going to ruin your rep!"