Hi there,

I'm pretty new to all of this... I read "The Game" about a month ago, and I've been doing my research ever since then. Here are somethings that worked and others that didn't... I'm still not great at closing.

1. At a bar in Santa Monica, blonde 8 walks by with a necklace made out of sea shells and little gold chains. As she walks by I saw "nice necklace did you make that yourself?" She looks at me and says "UMM NOOO,, this is Fendi!" And walks away, I hear her telling her friend "that guy just asked if I made this myself..." She walks by again, and I say "Fendi! How are you, I missed you!" She stops and we end up talking, but I couldn't close. I was a little nervous and shocked that she stopped and kept talking to me.

2. At a bar in LA, I open two girls with the jealous GF opener, as I'm talking, one of them takes out her cell phone and says she is going to call her EX right now! I was stumped, I should have neged her... but I just walked away... I'll be ready next time. As I walked away I heard them say "that was the worst pick up line EVER!"

3. At a club in LA, on the dance floor, just talking to my friend... cute brunette 7 dancing next to me. I take her hand and twirl her around, then ask her which cologne smells the best (I had just sprayed some from the guy in the bathroom). We talk a little, then some guy grabs her and starts dancing all over her... she asks if I know him, and I didn't. She leaves the guy and motions to her friends that they should drink. I ask her if she wants a drink and she says "NO," I respond with "Good, I wasn't going to buy you one anyway, I just wanted to see if you were thirsty!" She leaves, then comes back 10 mins later and says she has to go, but appreciates me being a gentleman on the dance floor and gives me her card and tells me to email her on MySpace. This was on Sat, I'm setting up a date with her for next week.

Negging works great on LA girls!

At least you are setting up a date with her,good job anyway.

yeah, it´s sounds very good. I agree, good job TheP

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Negging works great on LA girls? If so then what am I doing wrong because everytime I open and drop a neg the girls go ballistic mad on me to which I act as if I'm not even phased by it, but they eventually get so mad they leave. The only thing that has worked for me is to just be sincere.

Choking at the girl giving you her card

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Choking at you using a canned line and called out on it

Good job on the last one though.

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Great job. I'm in the LA area. I'm Asian, but I like to go for some of the Blondies and Brunettes. Just building up that strength now.

Perhaps we could go sarge together. Keep me posted.

Close the deal on the date.

what kinda negs are u using, give examples

I went out for a decent portion of this weekend to test the waters in and around LA. I didn't do nearly as well as you did.

I started out at the mall. I needed to buy some cologne. I found it was hard to approach girls that were walking and most of the time they were in the female clothing stores. I played proximity with a girl in a movie store. But by the time I worked up the courage to approach she was gone.

Next day decided to try this outdoor flea market.
I started off at subway, Immediately noticed HB7 clerk. Surprisingly, The clerk opened me by commenting on my shirt. It's a custom shirt with a incognito refernce to an unlicensed anime series. She said she liked my shirt and then we talked. Then she said "I like anime" and then my emotions betrayed me. My eyes opened and I leaned in and said "OMG really" and then the conversation slowly died after that.

Then I went to the flea market, it was a bust. So I moved on to try to see if I could find any target rich areas in china town. That was pretty much a bust as well. I then went to the book store and it was filled with 16 yr olds and no HBs.

I've decided it's not work going out of your way to Pickup unless your going to a target rich area like Club or Bar.

yea i've also had very little luck with the jealous girlfriend opener.

I know a bunch of you haven't had luck with the jealous gf opener, but I wonder if it is because of something else like bad body language. IN FACT, if you are having problems with ANY opener, read this.

If you are saying ANY opener leaning into her, and with a huge smile on your face, facing her completely, looking at her with big eyes like you want to fuck her right there, of course the routine won't work, at least not on a HB7-10.

What I've learned from watching Mystery is first of all, don't face her completely. Stand sideways like at a 90 degree angle so that when you look straight ahead you aren't even looking at her. Then just turn towards her with your head only, and don't lean in. Sometimes I even purposely lean back and usually they'll start leaning into YOU. Then make sure not to smile too much and don't look at her constanty...look off into the bar/wherever as if you are almost thinking outloud and she just happens to be next to you.

You are really ACTING with this one, along with a lot of other routines. You can, for instance, go up to her (from the side) already shaking your head, kinda looking around, as if you Need to vent to someone about your gf.

Then you say your first line (Let me get your opinion on something). Then, instead of staring at her or smiling, PAUSE and look around to the bar, as if your barely even talking to her, and definitely not telegraphing ANY interest. Then finally look back to her and tell her how you have a jealous gf and you don't know what to do. And while you're saying this, keep occasionally looking around the bar. Later in seduction you can hold much more steady eye contact, but at first you need to seem elusive and like you're ready to leave her at any second. She's about to LOSE YOU!

SO in summary, seem completely disinterested, don't hold steady eye contact, say a few lines, then look around the bar as if you are about to leave her. Then slowly throughout the pick up, you start warming up to her and show a little more interest, especially when she starts showing interest. But that way she really needs to work to earn you.

And again, its ACTING. With the jealous gf, seem kinda frustrated when you first go up to her. Think about it, if you use this routine with a big smile on your face and telegraphing interest, she'll know its a pick up line. And with other routines, same thing, you gotta ACT. I use a "friend doing gay shit" opener that works amazing. I say "wow my friend was just massaging my shoulder, I'm kinda scared right now, I think he wants to tell me something..."

When I do this one, I look around back at my friends and I act like I'm kinda freaked out. ITS ACTING to sell the routine. Don't act the part and you won't come across as sincere. So practice practice practice, in front of the mirror, acting the routine until you get it really seeming genuine. And then make sure you don't telegraph interest, and I'm pretty damn sure you will start having success with those routines.

Damn I type too much, I'm sorry, I'm just very passionate about it. Good luck, let me know how it goes!

they showed it on the series Pickup artists. Everyone knows about it now.

mike1234 you are mystery in disguise

The first one was just lack of inner game and you needed warmed up.

The second one; although "jelous girlfriend" isn't a pick up line she still called you on it. Maybe you should work on making your intetions a little less obvious.

Three was good; you played well but watch for AMOG's.

cool

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