I'm so sick of being a loser. A few years ago I read The Game and watched lots of pua videos on youtube but never acted on it. I've done my fair share of online dating, got quite a few dates with it, only a few that went past 3 dates. I don't want to just bang girls and move on, I'm really after relationships.

I'm very much a newbie, with some insecurities and self esteem issues I'm working on, but I'm usually good at hiding that unless there's something that makes me feel really insecure and I crack and get really nervous.

Never approached any girl on the street, I'm not a very good conversationalist anyway, alway have awkward silences, so I'm worried I won't know what to say. Definitely an introvert.

I wanna join a pua course of some kind for beginners. Something that is friendly and not too intimidating that will literally teach me the basics. Not too keen on the 'Lad' type culture and I don't want to be someone I'm not, so I can't see myself learning much with people like that. For example, I will never be like someone like Sasha Day Game so I don't think learning from him will be great for me as it's just not my personality. I can't think of examples at the moment but I've seen loads of examples on Youtube, I quite like the more mature conversational approach, think that matches my personality more than the larger than life approach.

Can anyone recommend one to me? Or if you can point me in the right direction on this forum?

If it makes a difference I'm Asian(oriental) and more into the smart bookworm types, rather than the party girl types.

Thanks

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You don't need to spend money on a course. You need to start stepping out of your comfort zone.

You just said you never approached a girl. Start doing it. Go to General Questions and start doing the newbie missions. It's a good place to start. While doing so open a thread in which you track your progress. Post every interaction, get feedback and grow.

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