Hi guys,

there's this girl for whom I have feelings, I believe she has feelings for me too. but she won't admit it. she likes chatting, calling and hanging with me a lot but doesn't wanna be my gf. I almost gave up on her but her friends asked me to persevere saying that she loves me.
Now I would like to play it differently with her, I want to treat her like my gf, I mean do things like we were already dating instead of waiting for her yes.
So how to go about it? any tips please?

Thanks in advance

You're new...give us some details. How old are you guys? What types of things do you guys do when you hang out? It's not often that a girl likes a guy and would seek out his attention but not give him any type of affection.

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I'm 24. when we meet we talk, we have fun, hang sometimes. but I've never kissed her. I once noticed that she was putting me in the friend zone and then backed off, she then started calling, texting,... telling me how she feels for me, but she's just not ready to start a relationship.

Did you tell her that you want her to be her girlfriend?

Truthfully, it seems like she knows where she stands with you and you are currently a man behind glass that she can break in case of emergency. Easy answer, don't waste anymore time since she verbally rejected the idea. More complex, if you move on and show that you are finding other women attractive then she won't feel so confident in being able to have you when she wants and will likely act when she sees that dynamic change. When her friends tell you that you shouldn't give up on her, you in turn tell them that she's not giving you any reason to keep pursuing and cut that conversation short.

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24? And you're talking like this and have friends who would encourage you to continue in this high school bs?

I hoped you'd say you slept with her

I hoped you'd say you've fooled around

I hoped you'd say you kissed her

And when all that wasn't there...I hoped you'd say you were 16 and her 14.

But damn....

I'll leave jack and others to give you advice, although I dont know how you'd even understand the advice if you're in this situation

Yeah...when I read the OP, I automatically thought kids.

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Next time slap her ass and say liked it.

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Jack's hypothesis seems most probable.

Wait. This is not highschool?

Jeez.

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Man.... You need help lol your whole frame of mind is off.

Do you want to fuck her, or braid her hair?

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How old are you guys?

Have you made a move on her? Have you kissed her? Touched her? Or are you and her just hanging out as "friends" ?

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Dude, words like love, relationship, girlfriend, etc., shouldn't be in your vocabulary until you fuck her.

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