hi there

I have "friend" for the lack of a better friend who i have become close with. Lets call her Ash.

Ash and I speak non stop over text (which is kind of a bad thing i know) and we often see each other a lot. I would go to her house to chill and we would usually make plans to go out clubbing together and what not. Now, i know what you're thinking: "This guy is so in the friend zone" - if there is such a thing.

This is different, i know it is because she lets me grab her ass and tits (which are nice by the way) and we have sort of a flirtationship going on. She is basically a female version of a PUA because she pulls on a weekly basis.

Her and i have a very weird relationship and i often find ourselves flirting to an extent. Theres been times where she's made statements such as "I wore tights just for you" (I'm an ass guy :p ) but thats Ash being Ash. others like "Did you see the cleavage i showed for you","did you see my boobs have grown", "you're bae" and other stuff.

We have said that if we both have an off night we would hook up with each other and popular to contrary belief, we still haven't.

Many people believe her and i are a fling but we are, its weird our relationship.

I guess my question is, what should i do to make her chase me, how could i seduce her into wanting me and craving my attention? A good friend of mine said that maybe i should back off and show that i don't care because I'm giving off the impression that I'm her little puppy and ill always be there.

Thanks in advance and let me know if you want any other information.

Mystro

Well yeah! But you put yourself there.
Yeah, but not it's not, not by a long shot, your her self validating orbiter. Nice job validating her every move, while she keeps you clinging there like a turd on a poodles ass.
Or your common run of the mill slut? She's out getting her weekly ass pounding, while you sit home with your dick in your hand. Seems ligit.

Next time get her worked up sexually, PUSH further, back off (slightly) push again, rinse, repeat, then put your dick in it. WTF are you waiting for?

Seems harsh I know Bro, but come on, smell the coffee!

Flirtationship? No. Extreme oneitis!

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hey wood thanks for your reply.

I don't know where this post should be so the admins can move it.

I guess no one wants to hear the harsh truth but thanks for sticking it to me.

When you say use push and pull, how can i sexually escalate to reel her in then push her away if she already is letting me touch her in the way described above?

what other tips do you have that can ensure that i stop being her bitch?

Wow. This sounds like both of you are afraid of ruining your fantasy so you're not taking advantage of the situation. Have you ever thought that maybe you guys should just skip the club one night and just hook up with each other?

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Escalate! Sexual escalation is all about what you do to a woman on the physical level in order to make sex with her happen.

Whatever it is you've been doing that doesn’t include physical/emotional contact with her is not sexual escalation. Without sexual escalation you turn into girlfriend. It makes her feel you are looking for girls for friendship! Not sex.

YOU pounding that pussy is unlikely to happen if you do not take the role of the man and escalate physically!

You get to that point and for some reason you turn into Mr. Nice Guy. Nice guys get rejected by women when the pussy out and fail to escalate. They do not know how to turn a girl on. Do you know?

Slowly touch her each time a little bit more until she begins to feel it as good and gets sexually aroused.

Some drink, some sexual teasing. Complement her ass, tell her exactly what you would do to it.

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is it weird that i got a tiny bit excited reading your response? so physical contact with escalation would be touching erogenous zones? or like maybe lower back, pulling her close for a bit then pushing her away? sorry if I'm not getting the idea you're trying to get across, but i do get your point

so are you saying i should just say to her "lets give the club a miss and hook up"?

Not in words. Heywood gave you good advice on how to go about it. Follow his instructions on one of those nights you are at her place.

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okay thanks, will do!

she just texted me asking we are hitting the club or not on friday. Should i have a specific response?

Suggest "Pre-Gaming" alone. Then, Ooops you missed the club because your dick fell in her.

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Mystrobation drop that shitty flirtation. Slap her as say oo fuck that was nice and turned me on.
Try to offer to make massage to her. Let her feels your cock from outside.
Hug her from ass WTF.

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Oh this is just golden. Dicemaster in the lounge. Rofl.

OP, listen to Heywood. Send him a beer after you're successful.

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I just have to say that was fucking hilarious.

This.

OP, don't waste your time in trying to get her to chase you. Despite what you THINK you see the successful guys escalate the fuck out of the majority of women they have sex with. The laid back, hope she comes to you attitude will NOT work.

Escalate PHYSICALLY and naturally, and see where it leads.