After one and a half months x calls and "want's to get together for drinks as friends". Was a great girl and broke up for no apparent reason. What do you do in this situation, I still want to tap that ass?????

Depends on how possessive and clingy she is imo. There are lots of exgf's I would date again- just went out with one last Friday actually- but there are lots I don't even want to talk to on the phone. If she's the kind of gal that can give you the space to do what you need to do then hell ya go for it. If this is just some ploy to get you committed again then screw it. In the best of all possible worlds you can keep her around for the occasional screw while you date other people (if that's your thing)- Ethically you should tell her you intentions before anything sexual happens, but maybe she's horny too and won't mind keeping you around as a FB.

Haha. I tried to get a fb deal going on with my ex, but now she just goes out to bars and goes home and fucks random guys. If you're in LA, look for her. Her name is Veronica. Damn, I ruined that girl...

I would be more concerned about how Commander feels about this. If you're still attached at all, I wouldn't do it. You can slip right back into that one-itis situation which brings along jealousy, anger, and heartbreak. You have to be the judge for yourself, but just take caution. There are a ton of other girls. This one seems risky.

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Her tacking on "as friends" is her escape route, whether conscious or unconscious. She's looking for something.

As Sardonyx pointed out . . . where do YOU stand with her? Are you attached yet? If so, dangerous territory.

As busker said, if you're both into it just for the sex, then what the hell . . . why not? Just make sure everything is clear UP FRONT.

Welcome to the forum Commander.

I think I still have one-itis with this girl, might be not worth it. She broke it off with me so. Not sure what the outcome will be if I go out with her.

Don't do it dude. Seriously, don't. "Just say no." - the phrase applies because right now, being with her is like an emotional drug. If you're not sure what will happen or how you will feel when you see her, then you are NOT ready to see her. Catch my drift? Any progress you have made in the past month and a half will be destroyed in an instant. Don't let her play you - don't get played.

My guess is that she senses you are beginning to get over the break-up and she wants to pull you back in, just so you're standing on the sidelines if she needs you. Don't be a Bench-Warmer dude, be the Quarter Back. The Quarter Back gets all the girls, the Bench-Warmer just gets ass splinters.

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