Hey Fellas,

Need youe help. I broke up with my ex 1.5 months ago. So now i went Nc. Everthing is good right now. After broke up im trying to improve my game and i am succesful right now. so you could ask WHAT THE FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM! I am fucking like rabbit and gaming all around. FUCKKKKK like a fuckin pussy wanna get my ex back. Today o picked up 4 women all together. I want to see my ex crawling fucking back to me. I ve photos with chicks, should i upload it to insta to make some attention from ex. Pls cut the fucking shit and tell me some working moves. It is probably oneitis to me. Need pro advice. appriciate...

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Why crawling back? That gives the impression that she left the relationship with you believing her to be superior to you. Did you break up with her or did she break up with you?

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i request for sex and she said we are not close anymore and i do not know if we could save the relationship. afterwards i said ok then it s good decision to end the relationship. in theorie both but reality because of her. i went no contact for 1.5.

She was used to be online at SPAM but after break up so selten. i erased her from everywhere. but her bro, i still keep him in insta and can not dare to erase according to reco cile chance. i think she knows that and will not come. she showed all kind off red flags but this chick crazy bitch. histeric whore. but i love fuckin tension and adreanaline...

nees a real game. i am believing you bros... Need a real game...

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She says that the two of you aren't close. She's crazy and has red flags. Real game would tell you to leave that alone because you can't win. Every time you think about wanting her back, realize that it isn't good for you to have her back.

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yes JackZero the ugly truth is that what you said. i took it as challenge if i were u i would exacly say same things.. but still i was also guilty acted like afc during last times, i was needy/clingy/controlling every kinda shit.i detected my mistakes, i ve learned a lot from, i improved my game. all i need is another change. You know why i am wanting it. Cuz i am as guilty as her... I know i would better than my ex version...

I ve changed.. I need one last shot. So moving on is really easy for me in compare to win her back, but i am the guy who challenger is..

I ve made everything what i want in my life except this...

thw question is has the game reay solution for getting exes back or are we really need to improve this side of the game?

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Carpe Diem, Dolce Vita...

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You're not ready to improve at all so long as you're stuck in your ego. And that's what's keeping you tethered to your ex - this misplaced belief that you can "do right" if given another chance. You aren't any different from most others on this board.

Time for a reality check.

think about it, some bastard steals your chick what is your solution move on, she dumps you what is your solution move on, u fucked up with a girl what is your solution move on...

It is i think easly giving up. It is coverdness. Are you actually unable to get your ex back? Your ego says it is not worth. Moving on is easy, fighting for your purpose is hard.

I ask you CAN u get your ex back with game?

Maybe it is delusion to think u could get your ex...

I THINK MOVING ON IS MENTAL MASTURBATION IF U EASLY GIVE UP!

I think everbody in this forum at least fucked so hardly once by their exes. Good thing is that we ve learned fuckin a lot from that. I suffered from my part, i believe there is a way to get the exes back in alpha way. i ll figure out and write it down.

Be a player not a prayer.

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You know your ex better than anyone. If you don't know what it takes to get her back, then the problem is you. Get yourself to a point where you are better without worrying about your ex and I'd bet she'd come back without any game.

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I think your ego is coming up with reasons to keep trying.

It's a lot more challenging to let go of something (for the ego) then to desperately cling onto it. As you do this u'll precipitate. further into unconsciousness, and the pain will only grow.

Incidentally nobody can "steal" someone, people are commodities. That extends to someone who cheats - it isn't the person she's cheated with that's the issue, it's her, and to fight for someone that made the decision to cheat is insanity.

You feel giving up is cowardess because society instills the notion that males must 'fix', but the reality too is that you're desperately clinging - this isn't love at all, it is ego attachment. And remember, SHE broke up with you so that in itself is evidence enough she doesn't want to be with you anymore. The sooner you sit with that, the better off u'll be. It's disrespectful to her wishes to decide what's right for her when clearly she knows better.

BTW how is "I THINK MOVING ON IS MENTAL MASTURBATION IF U EASLY GIVE UP!" mental masturbation?

He's operating out of scarcity - he's clearly still attached and trying to allay his pain (scratch the attachment itch) rather than do the work and move on. He's operating through pure ego hence making the statement that somehow he's embarking on this bold venture to 'not give up', when the reality is he's only holding himself back by following this path.

i am scratching the itch i know that. imagine u bought a new car and someone hit that in 2 months. it is what i feel..

u figure it out right now.. she raised my standarts not by her beauty with her standarts(she was manager) after that when i compare someone with her standarts, new chick seems to me low value..

i wont send messages to her.. someone said in this forum "best revenge is living well" i agree..

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This the chick you manipulated for a month before she left? Listen, you speak alot of manipulation, of revenge, ego shit...I'll say frankly you cant get any woman of value long term if your mindset is like this. Most chicks, even the "lower value" ones, are not gonna stay with a guy like this. You say she raised your standards, but guess what, you're not worthy of a chick with a mentality like this. She didnt raise your standards because you couldnt even manage a relationship with a chick at her "level" for a month before she left and didnt want to sleep with you.

So you can :
a) Move on, learn nothing and go on manipulating women until they eventually run away.
b) Manipulate her, to get back with you. Get her back into a destructive relationship she clearly didnt want
c) Fix your mentality and actually be able to attract a woman of substance long term

That itch you feel is the sting of KNOWING, as you said, you werent good enough for her. And honestly, you weren't. If you got her back tomorrow, you still won't be. Up to you whether you want to keep manipulating women and thinking of revenge. She didnt fuck you over, you fucked her over. Hence she wanted to leave a month in, and hence why she hasnt reached out. So you can either think of revenge, or let the chick find someone who isnt manipulating her and using her for his ego. Again, up to you.

thanks for comments. I know that feeling, but i am not the most guilty one. Pr. is %50 %50. I m sick and tired and thinking about my mistakes, learned a lot of things trust me..

neo87 what would u do of your girlfriend dumped u?

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Psychal power comes through Mental strenght.

If I had used a chick for my own desires and she dumped me, I would let her go to find someone who isn't going to manipulate her. Then sometime later I would hit her up, saying thanks for being strong enough to leave our relationship because it got me changing my life and into some therapy and I wish her the best.

I'm sorry, but there isnt a play to make here. A chick leaves you within a month, that means the relationship is so fucked up she cant bear more than that time with me. Same way if you get fired after a month, you've done a really shitty job.