Correlation does not equal causation, hellhound. A fit guy is not happy and fun because he is fit.

It helps. It doesn't cause.

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No matter how much good advice you'll get you'll still only see the bad in them go to huge lengths to point it out to everyone.

Suggesting solutions doesn’t seem to be doing anything for you.

Telling you to pull your shit together isn't working obviously either.

You know, that your life right now sounds so shitty terrible. I for one don’t know how you deal with all of your problems.

Your not really looking for solutions, your just venting.

Go ahead.

But I suggest while doing so, go back and re-read some of the super advice you've been given in the past, and just see how much support you were actually getting.

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Wrong. A guy who runs every morning is happier and more stress-free than the guy who doesn't. There will always be exceptions of course but that's the general trend in scientific empirical data.

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MC is hellhound??

Yeah, Hellhound and PEBBLE are together in another life.

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I've read all your posts, trust me, and I am prepared to do something. First of all, I'm quite a skinny guy and I have tried multiple times to go the gym and get in the weight room putting on weight. To not go too off topic, I am an ectomorph and every time I stuck to a diet, routine, gym, it took me 2 months to put on 2.5 pounds and I lost that in 2 weeks over break. It made me even more angry in the long run. I am not a fan of lifting weights. I play soccer at a very high level and get my tuition over 50+ grand a year paid for.

Secondly, I am not a whiny bitch, although I appear so in this forum. I believe that at the beginning when I had the control, it was because I did not put up with her shit, because I didn't care as much. I had a few girls after me. Now, as I moved, we became public on facebook and so forth, I couldn't game other girls without them knowing I had a gf, every girl I met in college added me on facebook and saw me and her as a picture which she wanted me to post as a profile pic. Furthermore I was torn between the line of being a good boyfriend or not and meeting her halfway on things, and now I am just getting destroyed. I don't know what to do from here to fix her and I because she is so accustomed to how things are, that its impossible to reverse.

Her warranty expired. You can't fix her. Throw that one away and get a new one.

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You're probably over training. Over training will also lower your testosterone aside from successive losses in competitions. To remedy this, you'll need to get 3-5 girls who will give you regular massages to ease up your physical and emotional stress.

With your additional facts, it is now very evident that you have to cut her off completely from your life. She has sucked you into this negative emotional state. Next time, when a woman does not want to be in your team, drop her off at once like a hot potato.

Always choose and keep women who will gladly do things for you; not this type of woman who wants you to DO most of the things she demands from you and yet is not willing to give you something back like your peace of mind or a massage to ease up your physical stress from playing too much soccer.

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I'm astonished as to how you can take an equation with exponentially more variables than one isolated activity, reduce it to "running every morning makes you happier and stress free" and then call it empirical scientific data.

Cherry-picking is the fallacy of incomplete evidence. Yes intensity based physical activities will release dopamine and endorphines, pump up T levels, all that, but to frame it as if that alone will solve OP's problems..

Whatever, I'm sure he can decide on his own who's advice he'll accept.

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You're invoking the fallacy of circularity.

Correlations are patterns and most, if not all, patterns are mathematical in nature. Patterns become predictive that a certain event will occur a certain number of times, not 100% but a certain percentage. I've said it before and I'll say it again, my advice is not about a 100% certainty. It's about the best possible odds. So your premise is really stupid. You're arguing over nothing.

In western medicine, cures are based on diagnoses and diagnoses are based on patterns. There's no such thing as a 100% effective cure. You're deluded if you think there is.

For instance, there's a correlation between smoking cigarettes and lung cancer. Hence, doctors advice patients to stop smoking to prevent or stop lung cancer. Many research scientists and doctors have come to the conclusion that cigarette smoking causes lung cancer.

Of course, that is not 100% certain. There will be other (but mostly minor) causes of lung cancer.

Your claim that "Correlation does not equal causation" is just plain irrelevant. Of course 90% is NOT equal to 100%.

Who the fuck said that my advice, or yours, or anyone else here is 100% certain? Some would work. Some would not. If the details are incomplete, most of us here will likely be wrong rather than right.

Hell, a 10% f-close rate is high in here. That's a 90% failure rate if you're a pessimist. But if you're an optimist, 10% is more than good enough.

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I wasn't be here on forum for ages. But on this I must respond. Everyone say men up. And that's right, more easy said then done. U hurting. Problem is no advice will help u, u will in your head be in Hell. But while u there, continue to walk, to paraphrase W. Churchill. It will become better every day. Like gangrenous hand. It must hurt, and it must be cut, no single word can help, you just endure. Simple solutions always work the best. Simple to us, hard for you, but you will endure.

YOU CANNOT FIX THIS.

Not everything in life can be fixed. Sorry Skinny, but that's just the reality. Either leave and dedicate yourself to bettering yourself so that this situation doesn't occur again, or continue to be her doormat.

I'm sorry that it sounds so harsh. But there is no way that you can fix this situation. In fact, being so desperate for a "fix" despite being treated like absolute horse shit shows how UNFIXABLE this situation is.

Call her. Tell her you've been treated like shit and end it. Cut off ALL ties. Block her number. Tell your friends so they help you to NOT relapse. You WILL find someone better, but you cannot improve your life, or your happiness, if you are still chained to her.

Sorry that i'm not a nice shoulder to cry on and not telling you that everything is going to be ok. If you break up with her you're going to be sad, probably going to cry, but that's ok. What's important is that you cut out this cancer before it destroys you.

I think the point is that lifting weights and exercise alone is clearly NOT the solution in this case.

Five years ago I had situation like this. Many of my friend started to train, or go the gym in these situation. Most of them really do look better physically and their EGO or CONFIDENCE seems higher but they still lack knowledge and I want to side with R.C
It's like saying that rich people are the happiest, it's plain wrong. On the other hand, GOING to the gym, reading books, developing your social skills, having more than a few girls in your contact list you know you can fuck altogether has much significant impact on one's confidence and mental health.

I really want OP to break up with her, but I know he wont... He will wait till the thing comes down all crashing and burning. It's just nature, when you lose her (if you already haven't), you will start to do things because you WON'T LET THAT happen to you again. I recommend you start reading self help books, there are cool ones I love the doc love's the system, magical tactics and others that will help you get trough that. (Or induce you to seek other sources of information).

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Thanks for ALL your advice. Why are you guys so sure that this is going to come down crashing and burning? Why is there no chance of me saving this. She is talking about going abroad for a semester now, and it kills me imagining her gone with other people in a whole new country. I have to try and find a job to even stay in the same country as her for a visa, I know its possible, the things I would have to do to make it work. The fucked up thing is, I know how bad she treats me and how fucked up she and I relationship is, but why do I want it to work and can't get rid of her. Yes shes fucking hot, fucking cool, sporty, on a scholarship, smart, literally everything a guy admires in a girl, why would I give that up? But then youre right, im her fucking BITCH. Yesterday in front of hers and mines parents she was ordering me what to do "you will come here", "bring the plate to your mouth", "you will do this", and she is NEVER wrong in her mind.

A part of me admires her, a part of me hates her for it, that she never thinks she is wrong and is so confident in her decisions. Then I get insecure, asking her after she probably fucked up, if everything is okay between her and I, what she is thinking, I fucking HATE it, why do I do this when I know she's the one whose a fucking problem. Like actually, can someone explain that behavior.