My man, I want you to carefully read what I'm about to write.
When you're on a date with a girl like that, she is EXPECTING you to move things forward.
She doesn't want to be the one to initiate things. She wants you to be the MAN.
Within the date, there are multiple what I call
Windows of Escalation Opportunities.
or WEO for short.
I know, the word is a mouth full, but what it means basically is that as you're spending time
together, there are natural opportunities to take things to the next level - hug, kiss, and other.
Examples of WOE's are:
> You’re sitting with a girl on a couch, you’re all comfy comfy and your conversation kind of came to a stall.
> You’re in a car with a girl, and you don’t have much to do. You’re just sitting next to each other quietly.
IF YOU DON'T JUMP THROUGH THAT WINDOW, the girl is going to feel such a loss of attraction
for you, that the next day she will either not respond your texts or phone calls, or will tell you
something like
"There just isn't any tension between us two"
Sounds familiar?
YOU have the responsibility to take advantage of those windows of opportunity and jump through
them, and CREATE that tension that she wants.
As with this girl, it's probably to late. But on your next date, pay close attention to WEO, and take advantage of them.
HOW TO ESCALATE WITH A GIRL
Here's a scale I use to escalate with girls. It's simple, there are only 3 stages:
1. WORDS
2. TOUCH
3. KISS
The way you start escalating with a girl is first with WORDS. You need to pay close attention to when
there is tension, and then TALK ABOUT it.
Examples are when you when you two are close to each other on a date. Like in your example when
you were sitting on a couch.
You gave her a hug, but instead you could have started with:
Stage 1: WORDS
How?
A very simple way to do this is to comment on it with something like,
"Miss, I think you are getting dangerously close to me - any closer and you will have to pay a fine... "
This would make her giggle and smile.
Then you could say, "
You know, as I'm looking in your eyes, I feel like there's something about you...like
there's this adventurous girl inside, but it's like evil adventurous..."
And look deeply in her eyes.
This will make her go
"OMFG I just got sooooo wet...I can hardly breathe..."
Are you following so far? WHEN you feel there is some tension in the situation, that is a Window of Escalation
Opportunity, or WEO, you initiate escalation with WORDS. The next stage is
Stage 2: TOUCH.
Now as you said that to her, you say,
"You know, you can learn a lot by a person by their hands..."
And you take her hand. Gently rub her palm, and say, "
Your palms are soft, which means you're a very
emotional person..." And look in her eyes.
You do that for couple of minutes, then you go to:
Stage 3: KISSING.
As you're holding her hand, you lean in to her hair and start SMELLING her hair.
Women really enjoy when you smell their hair. It gives them goose bumps. But please for the
love of god don't sniff them like a dogg, smell them as if you're enjoying the smell.
Then look at her in the eyes, and slowly lean in and KISS her.
I call this process The
3 step KISS SWITCH technique. It is so powerful, that a girl will
never again say to you "I just don't feel any tension between us..."
Enjoy it my man, and next time you write here, make sure it's a lay report
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