Well if it was a priority then she'd remember... which isn't an amazing sign. I wouldn't count on this girl, but you could text her something like "Going to a bar on Friday if you want to come?"

Edit: I'd personally call, but some guys don't like to because she can ignore that and then you don't know if you should call again etc..

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Thanks man! My friend ended up calling me today leaving a message asking about something unrelated to meeting up tomorrow (Friday). I didn't bother calling back because it was annoying so I just text her and didn't bother asking her about tomorrow. Not sure If I want to even ask her anymore until she decides to actually want to link up. Anyways, looking forward to the weekend and fresh starts.

Greetings guys... Do it's Friday and I'm away and about to go out. However the girl I went out with a couple times never got back to me when she got back from her trip. Do you think I should reach out when I return home next week or just let it go. All appreciated.

I don't think this girl is even interested. I also don't think you're going after any other girls. 6 pages, 1 girl!?

You'll creep her out by putting her on such a pedestal. If you really must, send her a text. Be prepared to delete her numer if she ignores, though.

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Right I know she would have gotten back since last Tuesday upon her return. I didn't want to make things awkward since she's my close friends girlfriends friend. That's why I thought maybe I shoot a text when I get back from my trip next week. No I'm not really seeing other girls at the moment but I should. I just need to make time for it. I feel like it'd be weird getting back to her next week. Maybe she even assumes is reach out instead of her.

Right I know she would have gotten back since last Tuesday upon her return. I didn't want to make things awkward since she's my close friends girlfriends friend. That's why I thought maybe I shoot a text when I get back from my trip next week. No I'm not really seeing other girls at the moment but I should. I just need to make time for it. I feel like it'd be weird getting back to her next week. Maybe she even assumes is reach out instead of her.

Update:

So I ended up shooting her a text. I figured I'd be a bit sincere this time. I mean I figure you can't always assume they should get back to you so I said this...

Hey! Hope your well. Apologies for not getting back to you. I've been away on a trip and just got in today. Let me know what your schedule looks like this week so we can get together.

She returned my text saying hey (name) how was your trip? I just returned from my trip and have been really sick and recovering. Let's touch base later in the week to meet up!

I then said the trip was awesome! Feel better. Yeah, let me know when your schedule is free so so we can meet up.

That's all that went down. At this point we'll see what happens.

Such oneitis. Every time he posts it's like "Please give me an excuse to text her again"

She didn't give you a definite date, she's flaking in the nicest way possible. I can see it a mile off.

1. She told you she's sick which gives her a few days

2. She said "lets touch base later" lol.. no definite plans.

The strongest negotiating position is to be able to walk away and mean it.

You're not communicating that you could walk away..

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6 PAGES OF SHIT

Finally found out how to unsubscribe from thread.

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Oh well, on with the next. Maybe I'll ask my friends gf to send another my way because this one didn't workout. And yeah I noticed she was flaking obviously as she made it very clear.

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damn bro...make the next one at least not go over 4 pages..

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So this girl got back to me. She invited me to go out apple picking this Saturday with the girl who hooked me up with her. I laughed so hard when I got this text... 1. I can't make it as I have a Saturday group ride, 2. Work afterwards and 3. It's my birthday and had setup plans to hang with my boy who is the boyfriend of the girl who hooked us up which is the one who is going out this weekend apple picking with her.

I know sounds complicated as hell. How would you go about this. I don't think I want to see this chick at all anymore. At this point it just seems awkward, especially since I just spoke to my buddy on the phone and he was trying to arrange things for my b-day this weekend with me. I think he might have entertained the idea to his GF who is friends with the girl I went on the date with.

Was thinking of getting back and just saying "Hey, sorry but I can't make that." Let's try and get together another day.

If you want to date her then say "I'm busy that day, but what other days are you free? Come over and we'll make dinner" - shes been flaking and being hard to get, so she comes to you.

If you don't want to date her, waste of energy to do much really. Just say you can't make it and don't offer another date. Can't this thread be locked lol

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You are right...

Update:

Ended up responding back saying,,,

"Hey... Sweet! Wish I can so I can blend some of that up for my morning smoothie. No I can't make it. I have a morning group ride in the morning followed by work. In the evening I'll be getting together with friends. I'm free this Sunday afternoon if you'd like to meet after my class if that works for you."

Left it at that. I know the beginning text was kinda of silly but quite frankly, I don't give a crap. She made it pretty obvious that she doesn't really want to hangout especially after being tentative with planing. I gave her many opportunities to meet so whatever at this point. Just sharing this experience with those who may be in a similar situation. What's weird is that she's my good friends gf's friend and it can be awkward when in the same space such as a party, event, etc. Anyways, if she tries to reschedule or meet up with me again I'm just going to blow her off as she's not really making much effort.

And yes, I'm sorta over this thread that I started as well. Perhaps others can utilize this information to their benefit.