Hi All,

Spartan X Here nice to meet you, I have stopped being a player for a while...since I was in a serious relationship however that has come to an end and I have been hitting the scene and starting to get back into the game. Have had moderate success and am now seeing a HB9.

However I feel she may be sleeping with other guy/s. Now I know I can't judge as we haven't established an official relationship and usually I wouldn't care but I feel something more for this girl and I want her to be honest as I don't have any proof at the moment. Also this is a long distance relationship as she lives in another country. She doesn't have a lot of money and recently went to Dubai, when I asked her how she could afford it she didn't answer. Meanwhile a guy who was pursuing her previously arrived on the same day in Dubai...I have a feeling she is messing around with him with him. She had said she went to visit a friend she helped in the past to Dubai but i find it to coincidental this guy arrived on the same day.

I need on advice on how to proceed...I am meeting her next week. Should I ask her if she is sleeping with other guys, just meet her act oblivious and enjoy myself or just finish things with her? Help would be much appreciated.

Skimmed it... All I can say is if you don't trust her or she keeps secrets from you...don't get into a relationship with her. Especially long distance

Thanks got it! But should I ask her about it or just let it go ?

What is asking her going to do?

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She's not obligated to you in anyway nor you her. Stop focusing on who she is or isn't banging and go out and do your thing.

It doesn't matter. It's none of your business.
This just makes the relationship matter a whole lot less. How many hot women are in your own country?
Some hot women do this. It's no big deal.
Fuck her really good and don't bring up any talk about any relationship or any other guys [if you didn't get it, other guys and the relationship doesn't matter at this point].

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Thanks Brothers for all the advice!

Update: I have confirmed that she is in fact staying with the other guy. Meeting her Thursday going to do my thing...I know its stupid but a big part of me wants to bust her... I honestly don't know what it will accomplish but I just feel like I should...what do you guys think? i mean is a guilt trip worthwhile..if she does in fact guilty? part of me believes she will feel more guilty because she got caught not because of what she did.

Got caught with what? She doesn't owe you anything.

You can't get caught with something you're not supposed to not do.

Stop being needy.

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Are you out of your mind? Only thing you can do this kind of situation is to act self-confidence, happy and move on with your life, as long as she knows you want her or you are trying to make her life bad, its showing your weaknesse, neediness, jealousy, insecurities etc. Its worst scenario ever.

At the moment she has all the power, she is hooking up with other guy, but she is still holding you to her back-up plan, because she knows if it doesnt work out with this other guy, you`ll take her back... so she has nothing to worry about. Things are going to change only and only then if the power is moving from her to you and this will happen only if you stop acting needy, insecure, jealous etc and you are showing that you are completely fine with break-up and its actually best thing what is happening to you and go start working out, find new hobbies, go in dates etc, show her that you are completely OK with break up, because its only way to switch the power, every other move will push her more and more away.

I guess you guys are right....I shouldn't show any weakness or neediness. But how do you guys suggest i break up with her? Just tell her I don't want to see her anymore without any reason?

You can't break up with someone you're not in a relationship with...

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Fuck me! you are absolutely right! Why do i keep thinking about her in this way...man I really got attached this is insane!

Wtf. Cool who cares. What the hell is your problem?

This forum is for harmonious interactions with the opposite sex. You could not be any further from that with this idea.

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She's not gonna feel guilty. She's gonna feel like you're a psycho stalker and never talk to you again. Good job.

If you want her to want you more than she wants the other guy, fuck her better. Make her feel better than he does. She'll make the choice for herself.

But calling her out on it.... Not going to accomplish much. You could hit up some other girls to take your mind off her in the meantime though.

Hey guys here is the update.

We met up she was acting distant. Brought her back to the aprtment...had some last minute resistance...did a freeze out. Watched a tv show...then banged her. She spent the night banged her in the morning and she went on her way. Sent me a message 2 hrs later that we shouldn't continue anymore, she doesn't know why she changed but she feels different now blah blah blah. I told her cool no problem, wish you nothing but the best, have a nice life and that was it. Going out sarging tonight. Thanks for all the help fellas.