Hey bro's, obviously there's a bit of confusion. I'll explain. We met on a weds. After that, I called her and offered Tues & Weds. She has always texted me back, and she texted me and explained she wasn't able to go Tues. OK fine. She said, she'll be free next week. I said, I'll let you know and get back to you cause my week is hectic. She said, no rush it's fine. So I wait 3 days, telling her my schedule is sorted and I'm less busy after this Sun. After the weekend (i.e. The *next week she suggested) but I didn't give a date, too risky.

She responds back to me this morning at 7 AM with "I'm coming back from canada Sunday/Monday so I'll let you know then" So, she would have stopped responding if she wasn't interested, maybe she likes to be chase or in a position of power. She's always texted me back and there's ccompliance. If it was a no go, we wouldn't have even made it this far. I think that's fair to say. Also, I'm learning TONS from each comment on here. I don't mean to ring the topic out, I'm just learning what to do as I go. So, I respect everyone's *positive help and patience.

Idc about the girl, I'm learning the PROCESS of logistics so this way I can do it by myself. And I've gotten some awesome help from people on here that were kind and patient. It's just a discussion on texting. So, since she said she'd let me know, how do I respond to that while still being in a position of power

IF she's been taking 2 or 4 days to get back to you i would not say jack shit until tues or wed and say something like 'whats up buttercup' or 'how was ur trip : D'....that is if she doesn't reply to you by then of course.

IF she's been replying soon after ur texts that's another story.

In the meantime go meet some more girls. They're waiting............

I should probably post up a transcript for you guys to see, I'd wouldn't want everyone to have the wrong impression. She responds back to me, she's hasn't really let a text go without a response. She texted me this morning at 7am saying the message above, that she'd let me know, so, it's 5 pm now and I'm just gonna keep it short. Yet, I don't want to make it look like I'm waiting on her. So maybe, "Sounds cool, we'll talk then. Have fun!" Or Sounds good. Try to stay outta' trouble, ha." Know what I'm saying. I don't want it to make it look like I'm waiting on her, there's always that chance of her not replying. If you have a better response please let me know There's other girls I'm talking to, it's going great, I'm just learning the process.

Doesn't matter how much she's responding. If you're not on a date then either you're doing something wrong or she doesn't like you. The phone is for setting dates, not being her male girlfriend.

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Ya, as you can see that's what me and her are discussing. Everything I've out up here is what I've said. We're talking logistics. I told her, sounds good, try and, etc, etc. I know what you mean, she's not my text buddy. I text her, once every 3-4 days. That's all been posted here. However, if she says she'll let me know sun/mon, was my response correct. I sent something more less serious, my previous short text were dry logistics. Also, do I wait for her to text me then or do I text her

Did you read my guide? Seems like you didn't from your questions.

I agree texting is "mostly" for setting dates, but don't underestimate the importance of flirty banter.

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R.C. I read your guide, it's officially my favorite guide! Really enjoyed it, and you made everything simple.

So, I'm texting a few girls and because of this guide it'd now going to get even more clearer and easier. Here's what I would ask: I have to text her from another # because I'm changing services. Today is when she's back town. I'd be texting her with a different #. What should I text her without sounding too eager for a date. I'm free Weds.

Didn't she say she was gonna get back to you? Let her do it.

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^ This is the most important part of this thread, because it's where most average guys fail. I've got faith that you won't, though.

Unless you're saying she can't get in contact with you because you changed your number?

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R.C. and J, guys thanks so much for your support and positive comments. It means a lot for you guys to support me and encourage me, it actually makes me feel a lot more confident! And I'm completely confident I can do this.

No one can text me right now because I have no service SPAM (even if she did text me, I can't receive it). So, I can only talk with her through my Google voice number. So, at this point, I'd have to contact first. Suggestions?

P.S. I get my activation code Wed/Thurs.

To be honest with you I wouldn't even worry about it. I'd just do my thing until I get my number back and once that's done, if she had texted me and the situation justifies it I'd tell her that I had no service for a while and maybe reschedule.

Don't be the dude that sleeps with his phone next to his head "just in case she texts me". Switch that thing on silent and get your quality sleep. The world won't end in a few days.

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Yeah, i also agree and its giving her time to wonder about you, you are not too avaible and not too weak to chase after her and its solid excuse for later that you had no service, so just move on with your life at the moment and if she is attracted to you, this few days dont going to change anything.

I totally agree, good point guys. Only problem is, the company told me it's gonna' take a lot longer than expected. So, that kinda haults things. It sucks, I know. If too much times goes on, the attraction may die out. Should I just txt her tomorrow

She said she'll get back to you, right?

you should be going after other girls. If you really must text her (I wouldn't) just say "You sorted your schedule? I've got a couple days this week where I could do something"

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J, thanks brother. If you read above you'll see my # no longer works so I can't receive texts. Only a Google voice # she doesn't have.

P.s. If you read my other posts you'll see I'm talking to another chick as well.