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PostPosted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 12:14 am 
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Hey whatsup players!

I've learned through countless failures how to become a steady player.
Got 9 lays under my belt, which happened in basically a 3year span, which is pretty remarkable to me considering I havent gotten any before then. It's like I just hit an enlightenment. But i'm always learning and open to new perspectives.

But enough with the biography,
had a serious question I'd want to address to the experienced PUAs only. (15+ Lays under their belt)

Last night,
I was at a music festival, I playfully waltzed through the crowd scoping out the baddies in the vicinity.
I saw one, passed her up and stood infront of her, after a few seconds of vibing with the music, I turned and faced a very cheerful looking young lady who was enjoying the music herself. With a big smile , I gave her a double high-five, which she happily obliged. Then turned back and kept jamming to the music. Next you know she walks infront of me, and turns her head and gives me DAT SMILE. I smile back, and a few seconds later shes shaking DAT ASS infront of me. Clear signals of interest I walked up a little closer, and she came closer. Next you know were dancing, little grinding going on. She's giving clear IOI's even holding my hand. I bring her closer to me and we dance longer, she turns her head towards me and we make a good 3-second eye contact, we kiss. Nothing make outey, just a nice good smooch. She's near her friends too, which they seem to approve of her having a good time. I high five their friends, and we have them take pics for us two. and we kept dancing for probably a good 25 more minutes. lots of hand holding, im hugging her from behind, and she looks back again and we kiss again. I was rolling face, but when I asked her she said she was completely sober. Another good indication that she was clear headed when acting as she did. I get her number because I'd rather not have this become a missed connection, you know how baddies can be slippery. So another 10 minutes later, her friends decide to leave and she tells me she's going to. I give her a hug goodbye. (maybe i shoulda kissed her since weve been kissing?)

but now here's the dilemma, don't want to put her on a pedestal, but she's a girl i'd definitely want to date.
how should I follow this up? The event was last night, and this is the day after.
DO i text her? or DO I wait? Because there was definitely a connection.
Don't want to act too needy by texting her soon, should I wait?

Also got pics of us having a blast, so maybe I can send some her way.

Just need advice on how to perfectly execute this, not letting this fish slip away.

Thank you fellow PUAs and Students of the Game.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 12:44 pm 
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Love the call out for 'experienced PUAs only' on an issue that's very, very basic and not complicated at all...

You're over-investing... you're trying to perfect your interaction, and that call-out for expert advice only accents this.
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Just need advice on how to perfectly execute this, not letting this fish slip away.
Take a step back and be ready for the possibility she was simply at a concert, drunk, looking for fun - and you were convenient... Not to say she isn't interested. I'm just saying it's possible this is nothing, so you may be giving this more attention than it deserves.

She's one prospect. You should have 10.

The pictures are a good idea. Send her a couple and use that to get your foot in the door. Set up a date as soon as you can. I'd do it sooner rather than later.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 5:20 pm 
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Yeah just send her the pics on what'app. Then gauge her response.

As an experienced PUA with well over 15+ lays under his belt, my whole night is filled with interactions like this. Lot's of makeouts, lots of IOI's.

The reality is, most of them flake or don't even remember you in the morning. I get the feeling that you're thinking way ahead of yourself. Just send her a text, see where it goes. Detach yourself from the outcome. Even better, fuck them the same night.

Only people with 100+ lays are allowed to disagree with me...

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 12, 2015 7:29 am 
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I'm no expert PUA, not even close tho....but I found myself in the same situation recently.
'Hook up in a club, K-close + #'

I texted her the next day ' hey, do you remember me ;) ' and had some good results with that.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 12, 2015 7:57 am 
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Just need advice on how to perfectly execute this, not letting this fish slip away.

Thank you fellow PUAs and Students of the Game.
Bad mindset to have.
You were in a high energy environment dude. Those things happen more often than you'd think. It was not a special interaciton.

By all means text her, just don't make wedding plans already.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 13, 2015 1:25 am 
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Your neediness is going to scare her away.


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