First of all;

I should just not respond right?

Secondly:

She was talking to a girlfriend of me this weekend about that she was struggling with our break up. Later that night a friend of me saw her crying. That in combination with the messages she sent me asking to come to my place to drop my stuff this weekend and the photo are really making it hard on me. All in all I think I've been doing quite good (obviously with some exeptions) the past 5 weeks but the above makes it feel as If i'm slipping...
Could use some great peptalk or whatever!

I blocked her on FB. But today I see a pic of a friend of hers where they are sitting in a bar and her ex is at the same table. I get overmanned by emotions and call her...

She tells me nothing is going on and that it was a coincidence.

I can sense some kind of dark satisfaction in the sound of her voice now that I'm calling her.

After that question I tell her that's all and we say goodbye. I get a message saying:

"I dont want you to call me anymore if you call for that stuff and ignore all the rest (She has been sending messages which I ignored...). So long and have fun fucking other girls"

First of all;

I should just not respond right?

Secondly:

She was talking to a girlfriend of me this weekend about that she was struggling with our break up. Later that night a friend of me saw her crying. That in combination with the messages she sent me asking to come to my place to drop my stuff this weekend and the photo are really making it hard on me. All in all I think I've been doing quite good (obviously with some exeptions) the past 5 weeks but the above makes it feel as If i'm slipping...
Could use some great peptalk or whatever!

For the record, she broke up with me and I believe I'm still crazier about her than the other way around.

Thx so much.

Little update

A week ago (as stated in previous post) I called her, asked if she hooked back up with her ex. Afterwards she sended me a message saying
"Dont call or send me anymore if you ignore my messages, so long and have fun fucking other girls"

I didnt respond (thanks for the motivation guys )

To my surprise I discover that she defriended me on FB...
Also she didnt let me know anything for my bday and she still has my stuff...

Today I get a message

"Sry for all this, I was annoyed you ignored me. There is really nothing going on with my ex. Should i give your stuff to somebody or can we meetup?"

I ignored...

An hour ago i'm sitting in the bar with a mutual friend. He tells me out of the blue "she's coming here now". Of course she knows I'm there. I finished my drink in a relax way and went home.

So, I think i'm making some progress here right?

I know I should just not give a fuck about all this and not be moved by it, but small steps... i'm definitely not there yet!

Just wanted to vent whats going on in my mind right now and thank you guys for the advice and motivation that made my do this...

Be honest with yourself, do you really NEED the stuff she of yours back OR is it a veiled way of justifying seeing her again in hopes of rekindling something?