So this girl is in a social circle and I get sexual with her since the first date, which is the second time we met. Then, she went cold, replying minimally and sometimes just ignore my text. This I can understand that it might be buyer remorse and i escalated too fast without any comfort and she might think im a player

But....
I just set another date by leading and telling her my plan and tell her to come join my house, which is very obvious i will fuck her. And she came. When we were together the chemistry rapport and attraction (everything is there). From my experience, all girls that show these sign will b super into me no matter what, but after sleeping with her, so became cold on text again.

She did admit that she just broke up and didnt want anything serious. And that theres other people trying to flirt her but she dint want cuz they r doing it the serious way. she got with me because im chill and i just make everything comfortable. What im confused is that the level of attraction and compliance she has with me when we are together is very high, but once we r texting i felt almost like she is some girl who i havnt game.....

explain? how should i approach?

I'm thinking she is clearly attracted to me, and is the type who doesnt rlly want to text too much as she is not super girly type and dont like attachment. So I think I just keep persistent asking her out (dont give a fuck when she ignore me), but in a non-needy way.

Problem is we wont see each other again after a week, so im planning to go all direct and honest: "I enjoy you, and it will suck if we wont see each other again etc..."

thought?

How are you behaving after the sex?

Is there pillow talk? Is there a form of connection?

Sounds like you need to give her some space and hold optimism for her to text you he glorious "hey" one day...

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hey thx for replying.

did amazing in bed, great sex, a lot of pillow talk. good connection. from experience, if this kind of shit happen, girls be all over me after sex, and always initiate text. In this case, she just dont reply much, 0 attachment.

But i think she just broke up, and is the not girly needy type.

I agree with you, I would do the same and act as if nth happen. but I got only 1 week left before she left, so I'm thinking of burning it down. I know she think im attractive, and more interesting than many guys that hitting on her right now as she told me directly several times.

I planning to be direct and honest, saying how i feel ( stuff i write here) and that im casual but time is running out so i want to hang out with her more. chill + direct + honest. Do you think this will work?

I feel its better than trying to james bond game and then just miss the chance at all.

Another thing first time after i F her, she went cold. but I kept plowing like inviting her out, not every day, but every 2 days or so, then i get another F a week later.

This is why i think she is just busy, and as long i keep asking and its the right time that she is free, then she willing to meet. what u think?