I met two girls over the last few days. Trying to figure out the next move.
Girl 1: Met at my neighbors party. Soon as I got in and started talking to her I saw some interest in her eyes and possibly a little DBDL. Talked with her a little bit, played pong, initiated kino, did a few negs and eventually I isolated her on the couch.
She's a painter so I talked a little about that but for whatever reason I felt she wasn't vibing. We added each other on facebook and I left early. Sent her a FB message after leaving, I had a running joke about her name because it sounded like Eeyore, so poked fun at that and said good to meet you tonight. No response.
What's the next move?
Girl 2: I added a girl on FB that was in the friend suggestion and she had my acting teacher as a mutual friend. Talked to her briefly on FB just asking if we knew each other and turns out she's in my acting class. Tried to make conversation but didn't get a response.
Today, I saw her outside before class and I joked about the parking in the area. During class we talked and joked a lot about class and I used a neg. She really seemed to dig it, there was a connection. Again, I had to leave early but I remembered she said it was her birthday this Friday. I sent her a FB message saying IDK if she's a clubber but I know a promoter who could get her connected. Again, no response.
What's the next move? P.S. from what she said in class I guess she recently broke up with her boyfriend because he's a psycho.

Girl 1: You're not interested.

Girl 2: She's not interested.

Can you give more details? Why do you think I'm not interested, whys she not interested, what could have been done better, what was done wrong, etc.

Sure, you wrote: You don't sound particularly into it to me... Maybe it was vice versa? If she didn't reply to your first text and it's been a couple days, send another - if you're interested. If she doesn't reply to that then you've got your answer... Nothing lost.

For the second girl, she's clearly just ignoring you if she's read the messages. It doesn't take much effort to reply... and if she actually liked you and was interested in pursuing something, she'd probably find a way to invest the 5 seconds and type something... You've never even met the girl. I can't imagine why you think she'd feel compelled to reply to you at all unless you did something really outstanding.

What'd you do wrong? I'd suggest they either simply weren't attracted to you to begin with (not much you can do about that) or you didn't make a big enough impression and generate attraction or sexual feelings during your encounters with them (well when you met the first girl... you never actually met the second one).

Without actually seeing your interactions with them that's about as good as I can do.

Also - I saw you created a duplicate thread for this topic... last night, after I was the only one to reply to this original thread. Please don't do this. It clutters the forum and is against the rules. Thanks!

It sounds like you're trying too hard.

The first girl...Forget about it. Just let that one go.

The second girl you may still have a chance with since there is always opportunity to speak with her in class, but what was the purpose of the "club" comment? What did that have to do with anything? And what on earth did she do for you to want to get her "connected" - That came across to me as wanting to impress and try hard. It lowered you in her eyes because you're trying to do something for her when she's earned nothing.

I'd just keep it casual in class if I were you. Continue the classroom banter and suggest walking her to her next class once you're let out. If she complies, grab her number along the way and suggest meeting up this week during lunch hours.

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My bad. Thought the other forum may be more appropriate.
I met the second girl, she's in my class. That was bow I thought there was attraction cuz she kept talking and joking with me. Sometimes while the teacher was talking which that class rarely does. I'm definitely into both of them.
If they're not into me that seems to be my Achilles heel. I can generate conversation but never work my way to the point that they're hitting me up. I always have to go to them to initiate conversation.

That was the nice guy in me. This city is hard on a lot of people to make connections so I wanted to help her out. Plus referring business to the promoter helps me out and he can get me in to hot clubs.
Good advice though. I'll try it. Should I hit girl 1 up just once? She might just be real busy and not have gotten the chance to respond.

Bump. Looking for advice on what to say next.

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There's 2 bro.

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Since we're having a quote fest: can you quote your quote to my quoted questions below?

Show me one question you asked in the quote above? Just one. You said "Questions" - meaning plural. Now all I'm asking is to show me one.. Quote it from above.

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Come on, I was using alliteration to make a joke.
I have a problem that I showed above and I'm here to try and get help since thats what this place is for. So you gonna help?