Anytime I've gotten with a girl on a night out, it been when I've

1. had reason ably short hair(hair has a slight curl when it's gets long and can possibly look like a bird's nest)
2. no acne &
3. no cold sores(they'd be very small though, but still amazing how you can fool yourself they're not)

It may sound like one is justifying laziness, but what's the point in going out if you know you're chances of success are diminishes a certain amount, when you can just wait until another time.

... I can see not going out with cold sores. I mean it's not like you're going to start making out with chicks when you've got oozing sores on your lips.

For the other 2, though:
1. Seems like a no brainer... cut your hair short.

2. Couple things you can do here. Can you grow facial hair? You could try that to cover some of them up. Besides that, stubble is a good look as long as it's fairly even and you don't look like a homeless person.

I would also think about seeing your doctor if it really bothers you. There are a lot of medications out there that can help (anything from topical cream to actual drugs that cut acne down a bit).

I think thats just a reflection of your own confidence level when you have pimples and/or cold sores. Plenty of guys with acne are still getting chicks.

A woman is most bothered by the things that bother you. It is these things that will influence your frame and overall confidence. If it doesn't bother you, it won't bother them, if it bothers you, fix it because it will influence the frame you project and so it will bother them.

I've been unshaved with wild hair for the past 6 months and I still be in the mix like never before. I don't allow my confidence to be ruled by the external. Just as anemic sees themselves as fat regardless of their physical appearance, you have to see yourself as attractive regardless of what you look like.

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