| I'm looking for what I did good and what I could do better, I think I have a good chance with this girl. Be real please I promise I won't get offended. Ask questions if I haven't explained something fully enough. I will be changing names to protect people
Day 1
My friend Jason invited a girl he wanted to fuck to a small get together at our friends house who always has parties named Kevin. their was a total of eight of us and I had my own girl that I hooked up with that night. The girl my friend Jason was with is Lisa. when Lisa got there she brought her friend who really wants to hook up with her. The guy she brought was not being social at all and didn't care to talk to us even though we tried to make him feel comfortable. Kevin has a dance floor that me and my girl were dancing and grinding on each other on and I also danced with Kevins girl friend for a song, Lisa joined us on the dance floor but I didn't interact with her much. We all took shots afterwards and had group conversations. I had casual small talk with Lisa about something, I don't remember what. Then I played beer pong with her, me and my girl vs Lisa and her orbiter. Now when I play beer pong I call people out in order to get in their head. Most people don't get offended because its just a game. I was making fun of Lisa calling her "princess" because she would only shoot with the one green ball. In the end I won and she gave me half a hug for winning. Her friend was mad at me, I just told him to stop being so sensitive then they left.
Day 2
We all went to Kevins again the following week. We had a group of about nine people. I was with a different girl and Jason ended up hooking up with Lisa. I talked to Lisa a little and threw light leg kicks at her. This annoyed her and I stopped when she told me, overall though I don't remember most of that night.
Day 3
This is the day after. Jason, his brother and Lisa came back to Kevins house after the beach. She told me how she punch a guy the night before for grabbing her ass which started a group discussion about how that was wrong. While I was talking to my friend Lisa pulled her pants down to show us her newly tanned ass and she shook it a little. We all played pong and talked but overall it seemed like Lisa was ignoring and trying to avoid me. I got her alone for a minute because she walked outside to smoke a cigarette. I joined her and opened the door so we could hear the music playing. Shortly everyone else came out. She went out to call her mom. After awhile I went and rubbed her back, I knew she was stressing over her car breaking down, and I told her Kevin wanted everyone inside. She thanked me then trotted off in front of me. She left because she had work but I didn't think the interaction went well.
Day 4
It was St Patricks day and I went to Kevin to celebrate. I was surprised when I walked in and saw Lisa dancing. I said hey to everyone and gave hugs, once she noticed me she yelled "Jojo!" Everyone there started dancing and me and Lisa were even mirroring each other a bit. When we went to take shots Lisa asked why I had a tie on. I told her I had a job interview earlier which was bs. I ended up playing her one on one in beer pong. These girls were talkin to me sayin me shirt was blue and not green, but Lisa defended me. During the game we were dancing and trying to distract each other. I turned around and started twirking to distract her, she told me, "its not fair for you to distract me like that!" After this she did some very suggestive hip and pass movements which not gonna lie were a little distracting. We did other dances to when certain songs came on, she looked like she was having a lot of fun mirroring my moves while we both switched it up to hip movements. She ended up winning that game. She talked to my friend after which made me a little jealous but I just joined the rest of the group in conversation instead of having any reaction. Lisa's friend passed out drunk on the couch so Lisa went to check on her, my friend followed. I left with a girl friend to go get cigarettes, when I came back everyone was dancing and Lisa was watching her friend which I bought a bag of chips to help her stomach. I walked away but Lisa followed me to give me a hug. I grabbed her butt in the middle to which she said "grab my butt again jojo!" not in a threatening way, just loudly so everyone heard. To this I simply made a joke about how she may try me if I do and I know she has hands. We danced around for a little after this. Throughout our dancing she gave me sexual eye contact but would look away quickly. I didn't touch her butt again. I had a few conversations with her, but nothing lasting for more than a minute. Eventually the night lead to body shots. These two girls went first and started making out after. Then Lisa laid on the table. My friend took a shot off her first, it was from the side of the table, he took a shot then licked the salt off the right side of her stomach. After this she got up and somehow my shirt ended off so I was just wearing my tie and pants. Then Kevin tried to get her to take a shot off my chest. I said " that won't work cause I'm to hairy. But lay down on the table & ill take a body shot off you." She listened. I went to the front of the table, so I had to go between her legs in order to take the shot. We poured the salt on her left side and a line from her belly button to her chest and she said "make sure you get it all." I took the shot an started licking her side trying to get all the salt. I may have gotten a bit to sexual cause she said "no need for all that," but she didn't stop me & in my defense I was trying to get all the salt. I then licked the line above her belly and got up. She still continued to hug me and call me Jojo all night. My friend took a picture with the me him and Lisa in it. There was a point when I thought she was leaving and tried stopping her because I thought she was gonna drive drunk, but she just had to get something out of the car. Then my friend Jason called her phone cause he was jealous we were all at kevins. She gave me the phone to talk to him so I walked outside and did. When she was leaving I gave her the phone back and got a big hug and kiss on the cheek from her. I got a hug from her friend to.
Did good:
Had great Kino, especially sense it seemed like she didn't like to be touched by guys
Showed her I'm a fun time
Showed that I'm a caring person
Could've done better:
Get her number
More Kino, stronger Kino
Isolate her somehow
Bounce with her
Had something to offer her (beer, drugs, etc.)
Build comfort, possibly by talking about relationships, family, traveling etc., find out more about her in order to connect on a deep level
Walk her to her car
Next time:
Isolate her
Build comfort
Kiss her
Get her number
Got any tips? Comments? Questions?
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