Hey man,

I think there is 2 ways to fix this

1) move on and work on your game to just find abundance. I think this is easier because once a girl loss attraction it is very hard to reclaim it back. Try search chase amante stuff, his concept is for the girl to chase you. And you have lost the frame already. Once you are good at game, you will seriously feel that you didnt actually love her for real. it happened because you did not have the abundance yet. I used to be in your situation man, being sad over one girl. But once you reach level of being to pull hot girls, you will get used to beautiful girls so much that you start to be picky.

2) try to win her back, which you probably want to hear it more. I think conventional stuff. Try to distance from her for awhile like a month so she lost the impression of you being needy. Then try to re-approach her with new frame. Then continue be nice and take your time waiting until she will fall for u. I'm against this tho haha

Hi Folks,
I will be contacting her tomorrow(which is a week's time since i last contacted her through SPAM).
She didnt contact me back.

Few questions about my next steps:

1. What to do if she picks up?
Should i do normal chit-chat for sometime before suggesting a meetup time?

2. What to do if she doesn't pick up?
Should i wait for 3-4 days before calling her again?

I am stricting avoiding sending a SMS or SPAM because usually i feel more bad when someone doesnt respond to my texts than if someone doesnt pickup my call

Thanks,
Kunwar

I said two week. Chill out dude.. Seriously.

If you contact her tomorrow you will further push yourself into a corner. STOP

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Yes I contacted her and she blocked me on SPAM .damm! You are so right Eddie!

lol.. you're one of many on here dude. You come to a place to ask for advice from people that know something you don't and then you still don't listen.

So don't feel bad.. You're the average guy. Just like everyone else. Which is why the term AFC was invented.

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Hi Eddie I have learnt a big lesson. Question is can I attract her now ,having pushed her back. If yes how? I will improve myself to get in a better frame of reference.

No bro. You're done. You can't continue to break the law and expect to keep freedom. You disobeyed seductive law and now consequence must follow.

This wasn't a cultural thing after all. It was a personal thing just as I suspected.

The technology culture is everyone's culture that has access to it now.

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Hmm. ..It was a big lesson and wakeup call for me. Thanks a lot Eddie!

It looked like u badly needed her and were desperate. This is suicide bro. U r just giving yourself some reasons like culture, caste, etc., Believe me i too am from India (i had been laid several times without all the cultural bullcrap), you went too far with her.

It was dead-end before and will continue to be.

Interesting, how do you get back after being blocked on SPAM. I should consider myself an expert although I've never been successful.

1. She likes you but you did not know how to behave. It's a behavior thing. In your earlier meetup you turned her off with your behavior also.
2. The behavior constitutes mostly of being impatient.
3. The behavior is problematic because if you don't know how to behave you will not know how to behave around her when she is with friends/family. You're somewhat of a social liability, not real bad, but just annoying.
4. You have not shown patience and have miscalculated the pace at which she wanted to go. You either went too fast or too slow, probably both.
5. You went too slow because she wanted a sense of commitment rapidly, but a commitment that does not require anything. I don't know what your ideas were for meeting her. I don't think you had any ideas, only your neediness (impatience). You basically let your dick take control. She wanted to feel solid in something. That solidity had nothing to do with her, it's stuff you can provide her (with emphasis). It's the groundwork: your job, dreams, ideals, family, strength of your relations but most importantly your faith in yourself and how it comes to be through your work. Your task in being fast was, I believe, to give her some of that straight away.
This is experimental for me.

How do you provide someone with something you are? You don't have to do anything for it. You don't have to sell it or promote it. It's what you do in advance. So how can you go wrong with it? You go wrong with it because what you are grows. You don't have to provide it instantly. Don't seek to provide it instantly. You went to that meeting to convince her of something instead of sharing yourself with her. That means your timing was off. You went too fast in that you tried to cram as much "success" in those few weeks as you could.

This means the only way to get her back is to "get" it. That sounds nasty as if there's something wrong with you. It's not as bad. First, the clues:

1. She has accepted a lot from you already. A lot of 'idiocy' as well. She finally decided she had to block you because you were annoying and a threat?
2. No girl wants to completely block a guy unless you make it really really bad and then still.
3. She has given you signs about stuff to quit doing and if you had let it rest she might have started talking again to explain but you kept pushing it and it was just too much, she was angry and you just didn't get it and blocking you was the only way to make it clear.
4. She will start talking again when the message has gotten through.
5. Are you aware that she likes you even though you may have shown her a lesser person and that she is forgiving to a very large degree as long as you actually "choose" her and not make her feel that she needs to teach you proper conduct? You overstepped some boundaries. Only you can know what they are but she has tried to tell you with her silence and rejection.
6. She told you she didn't/doesn't want you. Why did you push her to make such a statement? Why didn't you ask her to marry you in a way of saying the unspeakable? I mean this.

Rejection is often a wholesome experience. I have little experience with it I must say. But I always got closer to the girl who rejected me. She feels cherished when you ask her. She might say no, but she was still asked. That's delightful. It softens her heart. When you feel like it you can ask her again, perhaps in a different way. Why not take her to Australia? I only feel pleasant vibes here. Give her a nice holiday. Tell her you want to ask her a question at the end. Then, at the end, or in the end, don't ask her anything. Tell her you've been asking the question all along. Ask her whether she will say yes.

There is softness and mildness to your hearts. How about this very intriguing question/statement by text.

"I hope you will say yes one day."

"I hope that day will be one in which you will look as beautiful as when I first met you."

"I hope you will remember how you first smiled when you first met me."

"I hope that I'm not the only one feeling this way."

"I'll leave you alone for a while but I can't promise not to think of you."

Maybe I'm being overly romantic. I have several girls I'm thinking of right now. Would I have the guts to say such heart-felt messages? I'm sure I would. Just not make it too thick.

I'm getting all romantic here. Sigh.. Haha, I just sent one of those texts. Long time friend, always felt special about her, she abandoned me after I abandoned her because she abandoned me LOL. Let's see what works.

I guess I'm just saying:

Be happy. The girl likes you. You've been obnoxious. Have a laugh about it. Write a poem about how silly you've been and share it with her. Play the fool. Tell her to stop messaging you. Have a dream. Wake up, and plan your future. Make her smile. Don't try. Raise her suspicions. Make her believe.. whatever you want. Be in love.