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Shoud you ever reproach to your gf something in her behaviour. things like:
-I felt you did not payed enough attention to me then
-you where answering me in short bursts, monosyllabic words
-you seemed distracted last time when we where talking
?
Should you ever admit to your gf that you feel jelous?
Nah man.
Its a bit psycho to bring something like that back up.
You have to deal with women in the moment. Deal with them when the behavior is taking place. But don't cry about it and don't complain.
We all have to compromise in relationships and become more aware of what we want from out partner and what they want from us. Its apart of growing together.
So an example of something you could do if she isn't listening to you is just stop talking. Don't make a fit about it, stop talking and go something else.
As long as you're still talking how would she know there is an issue? Or that you would like her to pay a bit more attention.
But perhaps you aren't holding her interest and could see this situation as " I need to develop a stronger presence so that people listen more intently when I speak "
Those are the two ways to look at it; you deal with it from there.
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