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Warped Mindless
PostPosted: Thu Jan 15, 2015 9:16 pm 
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Keep the girl around for long enough to find out enough info about the guy so you can come up with a plan to ruin his life. Then ditch the girl. Then ruin the guy's life. That's what I'd do.
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To the OP, go kiss some girls. Poly relationships are WAY more fun and this seems like the perfect way to transition your current relationship into a poly one.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 15, 2015 11:04 pm 
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Looking for advice in what to do in this situation. thanks. We've been together over a year and everything was perfect before this.

Here's a brief background of what happened; Her mom had an office xmas party and one of her younger mid 20s coworkers couldn't attend with his GF so she invited my GF to come to the party as his date to spend time with her daughter as the ticket was already purchased. I was told she was just going to her mom's xmas party, no mention of the guy and being his date. They go, drink, dance, party, at one point they go out to the parking lot to do shots and on the way back in he kissed her and she let him. Night ends, and doesn't tell me what happened and claims shes hungover and feels sick. She continued to text him in my bed beside me the day after....

Here's their conversation I was able to grab off her phone. (normally don't do this but in this situation I want to know the truth)
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[b]> means she sent it to him < means he sent it to her[/b] 30.11.2014 06:03 PM: > Kris: Nicks on tv 30.11.2014 06:05 PM: < Kris: Hahaha Spock....I'm going to have to point it out to him 30.11.2014 06:21 PM: > Kris: He could totally pull that off for Halloween 30.11.2014 06:24 PM: > Kris: Also, I want to say sorry for last night, you're really funny and sweet and good looking, so that being said I don't want to fuck up your relationship or anything 30.11.2014 10:20 PM: < Kris: Hey sry I was at the gym. There's no reason for you to be sorry. I had a great time you last night and I'd be lying if I said I wasn't very attracted to you. Your gorgeous and really cool to be around. 01.12.2014 12:00 AM: > Kris: So jealous you have time to go to the gym! 01.12.2014 12:02 AM: > Kris: Have you ever cheated on your girlfriend before? 01.12.2014 07:13 AM: < Kris: No I haven't cheated on Julia before but I have in my previous relationship many years ago. I'm no saint by any means. 01.12.2014 08:13 AM: > Kris: Damn I was hoping I wasn't the one that made you break bad because from what I remember we kissed 01.12.2014 08:22 AM: < Kris: Ya you have a bad influence on me but that my fault not yours 01.12.2014 08:30 AM: > Kris: Do you still feel the same way you did Saturday or was it because you were drunk 01.12.2014 08:30 AM: > Kris: Also does anyone know 01.12.2014 08:33 AM: < Kris: To be honest I feel what I felt but at the same time I want to do the right thing. No one knows really...Nick knows some details 01.12.2014 08:38 AM: > Kris: Yea I know what you mean, it's hard to shake off 01.12.2014 08:40 AM: > Kris: Like all of it totally unexpected because I've never had that feeling the entire time I've been with Tom it's so weird 01.12.2014 08:42 AM: < Kris: I can relate to that, especially since I just met you and it all happened so quick 01.12.2014 08:44 AM: > Kris: I kinda felt like I already knew you my mom talks about you all the time 01.12.2014 08:46 AM: > Kris: Didnt know you were that handsome and had the same obsession with assassins creed that I do, I still might love it more though 01.12.2014 09:07 AM: < Kris: Lol I'm positive you love it more. I kinda phased out of gaming over the years. I'm a huge adrenalin junkie thou more so now 01.12.2014 09:16 AM: > Kris: Explains the motorcycle 01.12.2014 10:07 AM: > Kris: I think that to solidify that nothing is going to happen between us, because if we're going to do the right thing we should be doing that right? 01.12.2014 10:07 AM: > Kris: I should tell tom, 01.12.2014 10:08 AM: > Kris: Because by not saying anything would mean we have more to hide is my logic 01.12.2014 10:28 AM: < Kris: I think that's the right thing to do even thou it doesn't feel that way. I don't know about you telling Tom but it's not my place. My opinion would be not to just to not roughen the relationship. I personally don't plan on telling Julia. If it's possible I would really like to be friends 01.12.2014 10:38 AM: > Kris: I'm weighing the pros and cons right now and I'm not afraid to be alone, I'm good with or without him, I think he'll get over it though 01.12.2014 10:41 AM: > Kris: But yes I agree on being friends 02.12.2014 05:09 PM: < null: Have you seen the movie "what if" 02.12.2014 08:19 PM: > null: No, what's it about? 02.12.2014 08:24 PM: < null: Well I asked cause I saw it yesterday and it made me think of us meeting lol. It's shot in the gta as well. Give it watch when you have some time, it's somewhat of a chick flick. 02.12.2014 08:59 PM: > null: Lol that's sexist kris I like action movies too 02.12.2014 09:00 PM: > null: What If (2013) Anonymous Wallace, who is burned out from a string of failed relationships, forms an instant bond with Chantry, who lives with her longtime boyfriend. Together, they puzzle out what it means if your best friend is also the love of your life. 02.12.2014 09:00 PM: > null: Hahaha just read the synopsis 02.12.2014 09:31 PM: < null: Hahaha I downloads and was glimpsing thru it & the only reason I decided to watch the whole thing was cause of the different parts of Toronto I recognized in it, without knowing the synopsis. End...
Mate this was kind of heartbreaking to read. "Because by not saying anything would mean we have more to hide is my logic" was the kicker for me. Even when thinking of her relationship with you, the "we" was not you and her, it was her and him.

Ever seen Shaun of the Dead (you should do, good film)? Well drink it off, and when you crash into your drunken slumber for the night, be sure to write "dump cuntish girlfriend" on your fridge for the next day.

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 19, 2015 9:35 pm 
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i know this is a month or so later but OP i sincerely hope you're not still with this chick. if ever there existed an "instant-next" situation, this is it.

"i'm not afraid of being alone, i'm good with or without him, i think he'll get over it though." wow. chick cheats on you, pursues the dude via text, says she's fine without you, then says you'll be ok with her cheating on you.

fuck this girl's mom. i'm dead serious. cocky-ass bitches like this think they are invincible until you start fucking their best friends, sisters, etc.

you can annihilate a woman's entire life with a hard dick and this website.

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Dude walk away right fucking now and DON'T EVER look back!!!!! There only friends until she sleeps with him then it just happenend. Its sad man I feel for you, but you can't give her the benefit of the doubt. I gave a girl the benefit of the doubt once albeit my situation wasn't nearly as bad as yours. She was playing hot and cold games wouldn't answer my call or text then. When she wanted to talk again she'd like my fb posts. Normally I don't respond to that, but like I said I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I could tell by her tone she was super relieved that I called her, but once the feeling of relief wore off she did it again, and I walked and didn't look back.

Anyway point of the story is ya you take her back she's relieved for a bit then that feeling goes away she's like I cheated on him once he took me back maybe I can get away with it again. Walk now and keep your dignity!!
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 24, 2015 4:01 am 
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Id say two things...
1 from reading that they are extremely likely to fuck in the near future.
2. Best move is to tell her you know.. your okay with it and you want to see other women as well but stay in a relationship. Then get her into 3 sums.
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I really feel for the OP. BUT, the silver lining is he can exit gracefully, not even get into it with her (after all, what's the point it's just a cesspool of negativity she'd created).

Go out, have fun, reclaim the energy you put into the relationship for yourself. And when you're ready open yourself up to meeting new people. This is more a reflection of her than anything you'd ever done 'to' her or your capability to please a woman.
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