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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2014 12:20 pm 
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I do direct streetgame, and I stare at Hbs when they walk by. They notice me watching, so they look me straight in the eye, not smiling. At that point, I feel ebarrassed and look down the floor. How can I get out of this?

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 23, 2014 12:42 pm 
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Smile instead of looking down. Or wink.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 24, 2014 8:25 pm 
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You shouldnt feel embarressed, just own it, either smile back or just keep walking, dont look down though, no reason to be embarressed. She'll appriciate the gesture. If she hold eye contact for a while I would open.

But useually I dont depend on that, most of the time I make eye contact upon the open during daygame, to her I appeared out of thin air. Haha. The times that a girl has held intense eye contact with me befor ive approached, thats a huge ioi and useually ends well. But I wouldnt depend on that, open anyway.

Hold your eye contact confidently and firmly, theyre just women, they dont bite. Lol.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 05, 2014 12:26 am 
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There is a method called tringulation, which makes a woman feel more attracted to a person, when she triangulate back, you can say any line which proposes a kiss (it's ok, you can kiss me/ can I kiss you) and she will respond positively. Simply look at her right eye, hold three seconds, left eye, hold three seconds, lips, hold three seconds, repeat


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 05, 2014 7:48 am 
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Thanks!

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 05, 2014 12:48 pm 
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Your question is about how to improve eye contact. So you make eye contact with a girl and when she looks at you back u look down and ? Walk past ? So basically ur question is about picking up women but .... Just looking at them ? I'm not sure.

Anyway. If your looking at them, in a very direct game type approach, and then when they look back (which is want you want) you avert. So your problem isn't a question of eye contact. It's a question of approach anxiety. Especially since the direct game approach requires her to make eye contact back (if you're not verbally opening).

So either you change your approach to a more indirect approach, just go up, fuck eye contact, and ask her a question, or opinion or whatever.

Or get over the "approach anxiety" when running direct game. Although I must say, it's really response anxiety since the opener is actually your eye contact and her response is making it back.

How to get over any sort of social anxiety?
1) get yourself into state
2) rationalise and get over your limiting beliefs
3) develop yourself so you have more things to be self assured about
4) just do it

And what's the best way out of a situation where are girl catches you staring and u don't want to open. Just smile. Nod. Whatever. How do u behave normally in a normal situation. Just be friendly.

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