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PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2014 3:12 am 
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I have heard that you want to make text conversations fairly quick, and maybe only send like 4-5 messages per conversation and in the end plan something.

I was wondering if you guys all think that, or if you think it's ok to have long conversations. I feel like a long conversation could build a ton of bond and report and keep you guys connected so i am very curious.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2014 5:15 am 
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I rarely text except with a PURPOSE.

For example, on a Friday at 5 pm, I'll text her and say, "You coming to the so-and-so club tonight?"

If she says, "Yes" (often times not), you'll say, "Well if you come, I'll be there with a few friends, find me, the rounds on me"

If she says, "No" or "Idk" (I don't know), then you'll say, "Well I'm going there with a few friends, it's going to be getting wild"

Then whatever she says, you don't respond.

This shows you are a guy with plans and you don't care what she thinks.

That's how you do the texting game.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2014 8:30 am 
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I text girls constantly gaining there trust and finding out about them.

I send way more than 5 texts in a convo and more often than not they are in my bed the next week.
Also you can tell how warm or cold a woman is and if you should keep pursuing.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2014 10:48 am 
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I rarely text except with a PURPOSE.

For example, on a Friday at 5 pm, I'll text her and say, "You coming to the so-and-so club tonight?"

If she says, "Yes" (often times not), you'll say, "Well if you come, I'll be there with a few friends, find me, the rounds on me"

If she says, "No" or "Idk" (I don't know), then you'll say, "Well I'm going there with a few friends, it's going to be getting wild"

Then whatever she says, you don't respond.

This shows you are a guy with plans and you don't care what she thinks.

That's how you do the texting game.
But what if you want to take her for a 1 on 1 private drink. You wouldn't go alone so your plans kinda rely on her 'yes'.

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2014 12:20 pm 
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You text how ever often your game needs it.

If you're good at texting and can use it effectively as a seduction technique, then why wouldn't you exploit that?

If you're a beginner, or you're not good at text, or you're frequently sending messages which don't get a positive reply, or are misunderstood - then yeah, stick with it for logistics primarily.

You can't fuck it up if you don't open your mouth ;) (or press send, in this case).


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You text how ever often your game needs it.

If you're good at texting and can use it effectively as a seduction technique, then why wouldn't you exploit that?

If you're a beginner, or you're not good at text, or you're frequently sending messages which don't get a positive reply, or are misunderstood - then yeah, stick with it for logistics primarily.

You can't fuck it up if you don't open your mouth ;) (or press send, in this case).

Agreed. I think calling girls is super invading

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2014 3:30 pm 
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Depends on the girl - at least once every 3-5 days though or else the lead will go cold.

Tease her a lot, and invite her out (or better, to your place). Escalate.


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