Ive been knowing this chick for a yr now got out of friendzone and now i fingered her twice but she dont let me put the penis in ,what in the hell is going on here? and she said i was being to rough and she said next time not so rough,all i said was ok

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Eat her pussy first. Take your time. Girls heat up gradually. When you've done that, it's easier to put your penis in.

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What Hellhound said or the complete opposite.

When you are getting intimate, try to include some push techniques. When you are making out, stop it, push gently on her shoulder letting her know it's over.

She will know something is up. And the scare of losing you will want make her want to get you more. Though let her wonder, if she says what's up, tell her "nothing".

Worth a shot I think

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Totally bad advice. That will work though if she's not letting you unzip her pants or she's not taking off her pants.

Fuck. She's already letting you finger her pussy. Just learn how to pleasure the girl properly and you'll get your cock in her pussy. At this juncture, you should really stop the mind games and just focus on the pleasure.

Another option is to let her masturbate your cock. I doubt that it will work in your case though since I can sense that you'll cum very fast. You're still not in control of situations like this due to lack of experience.

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I eat the pussy ,shes moving everywhere she enjoys it alot,i please her alot ,but still no penis in pussy...shes invited me to come tonight shes cooking for me, taking the clothes off is the easy part she wants hers but she dont want to give me mine,,,and we going on vacation in 2 weeks together,shes into me alot but it feels like shes using me to get the things she wants.

How long do you eat her pussy?

21 minutes is the rule of thumb. That's around 7 songs playing in the background. Or go at it until her entire body quivers. That's when you insert your cock without much resistance.

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Question, are you fully clothed when you are eating her out and shit? Or do you get down to your boxers or anything?

There could be alot of different things going on here. I'm going to say the most likely things.

1. You are being way to over eager. She wants a suave guy to fuck her, not a dude who just really wants to bust a nut. You shouldn't act like it's a big deal or that you are only after one thing. Make out with her, feel her up til she's crazy horny.

2. You're fingering her too hard? What on earth are you doing? If you don't make her feel good before sex, why on earth would she think you're gonna rock her world in bed? You need to make her cum. If you are fingering her and eating her out well she should be cumming. Work her up and then when she's good and horny create a little suction around her clit with your lips (light suction) and then flick your tongue over it. It makes it extra sensitive and has always worked for me really well. If you are doing it for 2 minutes and she hasn't cum, cool off, stop the suction, and go back to it in five minutes.

3. If you're making her cum and are truly pleasing her and she is not giving anything in return then you might have to try some slight head games. Get her worked up, eat her out, til she's good and ready, and then go grab some water. Act like sincerely your throat is just too dry to continue. Go grab some water but don't let her get dress. Tell her you'll be right back. When you get back try to make out with her and go for sex instead of eating her out.

It sounds like you're way past the 3-night rule. If she doesn't want to have sex after at least three nights of cuddling, fingering,etc. then you're either doing something wrong or she just isn't interested (since you've been in the friend-zone for an extended period of time it's most likely an intimacy issue).

For the former, learn how to pleasure a woman. If a girl ever tells you "you're too rough" then you're clearly doing something wrong. Don't just go straight for the honeypot. Caress her legs, stroke her inner thighs, massage the breasts, tease her everywhere except her pussy. By the time you start cunnilingus/fingering, she should already be wet and hot (you should be able to feel the heat half a hand's distance away).Cunnilingus is always, always going to do a better job than you're fingers. Slow down, lighten up and start with gentle, exploratory pressure. Avoid penetrating her with fingers or tongue to leaves her with the feeling of needing to be filled. Eventually head to the clitoris, and spend the majority of your time there. Keep in mind the clitoris is over 10 times as sensitive as a penis, so be gentle and keep in mind of the pressure. If you're wondering how long foreplay/cunnilingus should last, the answer is simple: Either she's grinding your face like she wants to devour you, she tell's you to hurry up and fuck her, or she cums.

For the latter: It's time to next her. Ask yourself if she's worth the effort if she isn't f-closing, and simply stop actively trying for it outside of casually asking her if she wants to fool around. If she's literally your only option for sexual activities, then you need to get your ass outside and start gaming with every attractive woman you meet.

go read a book on eating pussy, also don't be afraid to ask her what she likes/how she likes it. Usually u lick/suck at the lil bean at the top (the clit) which drives pretty much every woman nuts. Use ur fingers to get to the g spot, it's kinda in and up (use a 'come here' motion with ur two fingers (after the thumb to do this). Gotta be delicate tho u can't just jam it in there if she's not wet. Deep kissing, kissing around neck and shoulders generally works for most women as does sensual talk (remember for women organism is mostly psychological).

Women are like volume dials, us men are like a light switch when it comes to being turned on.