I came up with this opener, because I've found that some girls won't take the time to fill out their profile. It works about 50% of the time for me, and I only talk to HB7+. Basically you tell them how much in common you have and how you feel you've been connected for so long and list superficial similarities between each of you. The one I tend to use goes as follows:

"Wow, read your profile, and I feel like we have so much in common! You're white. I'm white. And we both speak English, we're so deep "

Like I said, it's run me about a 50/50, and I've used it on about 8 girls within the past few days. It's got a bit of humor, alludes to the target that you think she's lazy, and gives off a tone that you actually have things in common (especially if she has a sense of humor). Let me know how it works for you guys, or if you have your own suggestions.

That's a funny opening line and can definitely get some laughs and start a conversation.

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I've always wondered about empty profiles, but your opener is pretty catchy.

However, until now I used different ones, but the last one I came up with got me stucked with a HB8,5
Me: You look like a romantic with a dirty mind )
Her: Browsing through your profile, you look like the type of guy who sends this to all the girls on OKC.
Me: See what happens with a blank profile? I had to telepathically gather something about you.
Her: Mistery is my middle name
Me: Pretty sure you say this to anyone!
Her: I'll leave you to your assumptions
Me: Don't be sad, I'm sure the next one will send you something original and personal!
Her: You kidding me? That's what I live for!

So basically I've no idea what to say to her! Is there any way to turn this around?
I also have to mention that almost all my messages to non blank profiles are not canned and I try to bring something out of theirs. And NO ONE has ever said something bad about mine! This is the FIRST time! That's why I'm wondering.
I'm also afraid that she might interpret this as I'm trying to justify, which is not, I'm trying to be funny with her.

It looks like she gave you a shit test right off the bat, but you turned it around on her, without being nasty so props on that one! Also, I see an attempt at flipping the script with her when you said "Pretty sure you say this to anyone!" but she kind of brick walled you there. Either way, good attempt man! I think when you said "Don't be sad...original and personal" is when it began to kill the conversation. I sense you were being playful, but perhaps ill timed. Not offensive to her by any means, but it feels like it was forced. Idk, 'm not a master, but that's the vibe I got. Where you are now, is a bit tricky, and I would aim to start getting into a deeper level of rapport if you can (but not too deep. You still want to have fun, and you don't want to be wrapped up into an online chatting session) to get her to say yes to meeting in person. Maybe something along the lines of;

"Original? I didn't know I was talking to a hipster! You struck me more of a generic office drone type, except with better fashion ;p In all seriousness though, do you see yourself open to new experiences, or was my joke a truism?"

Let me know if it works! You bust her chops a little bit in a playful fashion, but follow immediately with a serious question. The cherry on top is the "or was my joke a truism?" part. This reinforces the idea that she still needs to play up to you. If she does, there's interest, and it opens up a little conversation (this is where I'll say something like, "you know, I really don't like conversing over the web. I'd love to hear your stories in person over a drink sometime this week." Boom! Date). Asking her a serious question in the mix of a cocky and funny attitude, makes her feel like you're interested in her and not just her body. With all the stigmas against women sleeping around, this is a big deal for most women. If she doesn't respond back, well you got 3.5 billion where that came from.

I like it. Will try it myself.

I always feel like I'm rewarding bad behavior when I message girls that don't make an effort so this might be a good alternative.

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Well lasses who hardly put any info on their profile, or even a pic, don't get much attention... So flatter and challenge them.

Opening something along the lines of...

Sorry if you get long lists of these messages in your inbox...

You haven't entered much on your profile which makes things harder, intriguing though..

Are you shy or just secretive?


The answer is always secretive, which gives you something to work on. Don't assume that those without pics are 45 stone uggers with chronic BO.