So me and this girl both met at university in september, we study the same course, we have the same
friends (SPAM group with her in) and were best friends since new years. She asked me out thereafter
and we have been in a relationship since last week we broke up. I am her first, she was a virgin and i
pushed her to achieve things - she is very intelligent.

Abit of history is that we stayed hip and hip during university practically lived at hers together,
ive met her parents and siblings she is a very moral orientated person and driven. All of our
arguments were based on her and my insecurities - i think i afc'd


She came back from mexico after staying there 3 weeks, we had a huge argument while she was
there and things went quiet (me being insecure after she sent me pictures of her next to a guy
touching his abs, and another a guy kissing her on the cheek - (she explained this was friendly
and this is normally her personality ) When she broke up with me i played it very cool and said i
understand, she starting talking about how we should see if we could work it out but said
she misses us being friends and i said that too, she said a few things;

- that shes immature and not ready for a relationship
- she had lost that spark between us
- she would still want a fwb relationship and give me advice on other girls

I flipped and told her to not contact me and that if she truly had respect for me she would
not even mention advice on other girls! I said i wasnt interested in a friendship and since then
after telling all of our mutual friends about the situation ( they agree shes wrong ) shes saying
that my behaviour got abit controlling and i beleive it was the spark factor too.


Is there anyway of perhaps getting her back, this is a extreme case of one-itis, this is my first
relationship also and i have spoilt her rotten! Sharing so many experiences with this girl. If i try
no contact that wont be possible because she will see me replying on our friend circle chat.. Or
shall i remain friends with her and slowly try and reel her in like the start of university? - i know
for a fact if i see her on a night out we WILL have the urge to have sex and i will want more.


help a pua in need!

1) She's not a 10

2) This will suck to hear but she probably fucked someone in Mexico - It went downhill right after, and she suggested she wants to fuck other people while keeping you as a FWB when she got back. You sir, cannot handle a FWB with this particular woman.

3) You need to find your testicles and move on. Block her, drop the What's App group... and just cut her out of your life. What's going to happen if you stick around: You're going to see her with other guys. You're going to imagine her fucking other guys. It's going to consume you, cause this girl is on a giant pedestal for you.

You need distance.

do you honestly think? she comes from a very well family, id seen her on nights out she would never play around with guys she was a virgin until me.

I know how this one's going to turn out...

10 guys are going to reply to this and all give you the same advice.

Then 1 guy will reply, who's been at this for all of 3 or 4 days - and tell you that you've still got a shot and you should go for it. That's the advice you'll take, cause that's the advice you want to hear.

Your situation sucks, my friend, but we've all been there.

I'm not trying to be mean - I'm telling you what you need to hear.

I really admire your advice and opinion, our relationship was rocky a month before that - id asked her if she felt like breaking up and she went bonkers and assumed i wanted to break up and broke out crying and her mother called me.

just a side note i dont think she cheated, she went out every night with her two brothers who knows she is in a relationship ( although she had her own room - youve got me paranoid now lol! ) and always told me when where and what she had done on a particular day up untill the argument we didnt speak at all after..

HOLY MASSIVE PROJECTION SPAM! Where do you even get this from?


Anyway your best chance of ever being with her is moving on (seriously). Cut the connection, work on yourself (for you) and watch you start living life out of abundance. You probably won't even want her back at that point.

Well we agree on what course he should take at least...

Things went downhill right after that trip. She suggested breaking up and FWB right after. They fought while she was away. Smells like a real possibility to me.

I've seen this before you guys were friends then you got into a relationship. She's been trying to get out of the relationship for a while now she's just a nice girl and didn't really know how to go about leaving you. You said yourself you spoiled her being too nice.

Learn a lesson from this be nice by not too nice move on.

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Move on and find another girl. If you want to "spark" things up with her again, don't initiate contact with her for several weeks and then invite her out to a social event where you have pre-selection and then game her normally.

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